There's been a bit of a debate going on at EMandLO.com about whether porn is good for you or bad for you. We also got two questions recently from ladies disturbed by their partners' porn consumption. So we "remixed" our Wise Guys' thoughts on the topic with some of our own to come up with the following advice:
Dear Em & Lo, I just learned my amazing college boyfriend uses porn to masturbate, at least twice a week. Understand, we're not talking an unhealthy dependency on porn, and he remains very focused on me when we have sex. He says it's just an old habit from high school. I consider myself very tolerant, and I am aware that most guys indulge in this kind of thing. However, I can't understand why he needs the help of a girl he's never met to satisfy himself. I realize there is high quality porn available that helps empower women, but that's not the sort he described to me as his preference. I just can't understand the appeal of what he's watching. To a degree, I almost feelRead More »from What If You're Not Down with Your Boyfriend's Porn Consumption?