,Every time you think you're done coming out, turns out you're not.
Maybe you bump into someone at the grocery store whom you haven't seen in a few years, who asks you, "So what's new?"
Or… maybe you get a Facebook message from someone you forgot was on your friend list, who happens to see a blog post of yours where you were being all Out and Proud, who writes you a sarcastic note saying, "Dude, thanks for keeping me in the loop."
Or… maybe you're teaching a roomful of college students, and in the context of a class discussion, a student innocently asks you a question you can't just shrug off - and before you even realize it, you're telling 30 young people that you're gay.
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All three of these things happened to me recently. The third situation took place this week, and it's the one that I'm still thinking about. Here's how it went down:
On this particular day, my students had brought in drafts of an essay they were Read More »from My Students Found Out I'm Gay — and it Bothered Me More Than Them