Should We Really Tell Our Kids They Can Do Anything They Set Their Minds To?I don't know how many times I've heard the phrase, you can do anything you set your mind to. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Working hard and being dedicated is important in order to accomplish your goals, but I don't buy the claims that people can do anything if they just work hard enough.
I have not always been so skeptical of this phrase. Truth is, I used to believe that no matter what was going on, I could "out work" anyone around me in order to accomplish whatever it was that I wanted to accomplish. Maybe it was part of that whole being invincible misbelief, but law school served as a giant eye opener. It turned me into someone who rolls his eyes every time that phrase is uttered.
I did believe that I could "out study" everyone in law school, I figured everything was set, and that I would be able to get one of those high-paying jobs at one of those big downtown law firms.
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