I'm a Soccer DadI'm a soccer dad. Well, not yet. Starting tomorrow, I will be though. To this point, all I've been is a Soccer Stepdad. Virtually no difference, but still, it bears mentioning that tomorrow my 4-year-old triplets begin their pursuit of the beautiful game and as of that moment, l officially become a soccer dad. And semantics, notwithstanding, I couldn't be more excited.
But before I tell you why, first let's rewind a bit, shall we?
I've always been into youth sports. Even when I was a bachelor, I coached many a basketball team, attended countless contests in the capacity of proud uncle, and always rooted for my little guys, regardless of whether or not I could lay familial claim to them or not.
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But never did I cheer as proudly as I did when my (step) daughter began her athletic career. Because, as any parent knows, seeing your child compete is the ultimate way to have skins in the game. And that's not
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4 Tech Rules Your Kids Should Follow this School YearYou know all those "new rules" you've been meaning to put in place at home for the new school year? With new teachers, new routines and shiny new pencils, now is an excellent time to implement those new rules. It is especially important to set guidelines when it comes to kids' technology use. An anything-goes policy towards computer use and playing video games over the summer months isn't going to work when school is back. Here are a few suggestions on hitting the re-set button:
1. Set limits on screen time
It's amazing how much time kids spend looking at screens, particularly when you factor in mobile use. Back-to-school is a great time to get screen time back under control. However, keep in mind that there can be "good" screen time - using a computer to research a school project or reading an e-book on a tablet - so not all screen time is the same.
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Are you shy?1. Are you shy? I have no idea why people ask this inane question, but the urge to respond "what do you think, Einstein?!" can be especially hard to suppress.
Cat got your tongue?2. Cat got your tongue? I'd like to meet the genius who first came up with this. Wouldn't it be great if the kid said "YES! Thank goodness someone finally figured it out. The cat did get my tongue. I think he buried it somewhere near the litter box. Help me look?"
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Smile!3. Smile! "Why, are you taking a photograph? In that case, let me comb my hair and put on something a bit more flattering."
Oh, you have nothing to be shy about! 4. Oh, you have nothing to be shy about!
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