"I just can't stop dating man after man!" one says. Blame the "JLo Syndrome!"
"I've never been single. When I try, I meet a man who wants me to be his girlfriend," another friend commented while I reprimanded her about her "JLo Syndrome."
What is the "JLo Syndrome"? Simply put, it's when a woman constantly goes from one relationship to another. Call her a serial monogamist; she is never single for long. She really doesn't like being alone. A woman who has the "JLo Syndrome" is just like Jennifer Lopez. She wants to be loved. She loves love. So she is always in love and in a relationship.
Jennifer Lopez isn't ashamed of the syndrome. She doesn't hide her face in shame, or pretend that maybe there's something unhealthy with always being in a relationship. I'm quite the opposite. I don't need to be in a relationship. I do love to be committed, but I also need a break. I need to mourn the loss of theRead More »from Why Having the “JLo Syndrome” May Be Bad for Self-Love