grow upAfter getting married, I found out a few things about myself. These are things that were already there, but didn't really come to forefront when I was single. When I was single, I made decisions without consulting anyone. I did not have to compromise or make sacrifices with another adult (when it came to my personal matters.)
But being married, there's this whole other person to consider. And if you are operating as a team, then you need to collaborate on most things, you need to consider your spouse's feelings, you need to consider how your moods, your attitudes, and actions will impact him/her. Yes, my marriage put me to the test and forced me to deal with aspects of my personality and character that I probably hadn't dealt with since living with my siblings.
I found out that if I really wanted to make my marriage work, that I had some growing up to do. I had some junk that I had to deal with. Yes, marriage is work. But, I have to tell you that the benefits far outweigh
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