I've heard this one a thousand times. "Guys just can't commit." We don't have problems committing.
Ok some guys have problems committing.
But here's a newsflash…it's not that we have problems committing, it's that we have problems committing to you. We're keeping it real here, right? Fact is, whenever someone says, "It's not about you" or "It's not personal" it's damn personal and it's all about you.
The "it's not you" line is what we say to avoid trying to explain why it's entirely about you. We're relatively wimpy when it comes to emotional confrontation. But what we really want to say is:
Hey, we've been going out for a while, I know. And now you want a greater commitment towards a potential long-term future. But the fact is, I really don't see you that way. Don't get me wrong, I love hangin' out, having great sex, laughing, weekend getaways, andRead More »from Myth: Men Won't Commit