Anna Breslaw, Glamour magazine
Did you know eyef*cking someone at a coffee shop for more than five seconds can lead to serious retinal damage? OK, that's a lie, but bite the bullet and ask him out already.
There's a guy who always stares at me in a coffee shop, and I stare back and giggle like a demented person, and then I leave, and we wave goodbye and I giggle some more, and the whole thing is sort of cute and sickening and gross, and he has no wedding ring.
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"Ask him out," said my friend Ben.
"But what if he's just a creep who does that to everyone?"
"Ask him out," said Ben.
"But what if he's turned off because I'm the one who's being proactive?"
"I hate you. Can we talk about something else?" said Ben.
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