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Imagine this: You have a hot date tonight with a charming guy who looks just like [insert your celebrity crush here]. You're going out to a fancy dinner and you want to knock his socks off. So, which of these three dresses would you wear?

A white cotton dress, perfect for a fresh spring day!

A gauze dress so he can kiss your pretty shoulders.

A drop-waist dress to bring out your starry eyes.

Which of these three dresses would you wear, my dolls? Which suits your personality best?

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Have you ever wondered what sex feels like from the guy's point of view? Well, I was chatting with some guy friends recently, when the conversation turned to sex. And they came up with an awesome description of what sex really feels like to guys. I was SO surprised...

My male friends all agreed that sex from a guy's point of view is a similar sensation to someone sucking on your big toe...except 1000x better.

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"It's warm, wet and incredibly soft," explained one guy, when he saw I looked puzzled. "When someone sucks on your toe, it kind of similar, although obviously much less intense. But that's a good way for women to get a sense of what sex is like for us--and why we love it so much." All the guys nodded in agreement.

Wow. Weird!

What do you think? Ladies, have you ever asked a guy what sex feels like from their, um, position? Aren't you incredibly curious?! And guys, do you agree?

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I am officially obsessed with Susan Boyle. If you haven't seen her yet, she's the 47-year-old Scotland church worker who wowed judges on Britain's Got Talent with her unbelievable voice-and then admitted in front of millions that she's never been kissed! Check out her YouTube video here and then tell me...were you a late bloomer?

When Susan's YouTube video first got the attention of a few of us at Glamour, we were forwarding it around like crazy. Love her voice, love her chutzpah, LOVE her little wiggle dance. Here is a woman who's a total underdog-underestimated and snickered at because of her age and her looks-and she goes up on stage in front of millions and completely shocks everyone with her voice, even Simon. (Not an easy feat.) But what else surprised me? This 47-year-old woman has never been kissed. Ever. Then, this morning, Susan was on The Today Show, and when asked if she's been getting dates out of her newfound web fame (over 19 million have watched her video!), she

Ryan from Single-ish wrote a funny post today about what he notices first when he checks out a girl. (See his list here.) But what about you guys? What do you notice when you see a handsome man across the room?

My answer: A beard. I'm a sucker for beards and I love a man who can grow some scratchy stubble. Five o'clock shadows? A Brad-Pitt-esque moustache? Long crazy beards? Bring 'em on!

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My second, more surprising one: Tattoos! I also think tattoos are really sexy. I'm glad Alex doesn't have one (since he will be the father of my definitely-tattoo-free children) but I have to say, a man with a tattoo makes me a little weak in the knees.

What do you check out first? What body parts do you love on men?

P.S. What's your sexiest body part? And an ode to small boobs.

Photos: Polaroid Jesus, Katie Sokoler, Catherine

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Last night, I was feeling a little frisky, so I put these on...

Sexy Love Sox! How hilarious are these? Based on traditional reflexology, they help your boyfriend know which areas of your feet correspond to which area of your body. If you have a headache, say, he can rub your feet in a certain spot; if you're hungover or have achy shoulders, he would massage your feet in another spot. Genius!

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The best part: There's also a part of the foot that, when rubbed, increases arousal and sex drive. So they truly are sexy love socks.

Do you guys like foot massages? I adore them, but some people hate them: My friend M. has really ticklish feet, and my friend J. always thinks her toes are going to pop off! Isn't that kind of funny/gross? Where do you stand on foot massages?

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Today, a devastated reader reveals that her fiance broke off their engagement. Should she keep the ring?

Here's our lovely reader's question:

My fiance broke off our engagement this winter. I was completely devastated. Now he is telling me to keep the ring. Some of my friends tell me to give the ring back to him and that he's trying to "buy off his guilt"; other friends think I should take whatever I can get out of this horrible situation. The ring is worth a lot of money, and he's much older and makes much more money than I do, if that makes a difference. What do you think?

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Here's my answer:

Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear that! As for the ring, even though your engagement ended, he is now giving you the ring as a gift. He still wants the best for you, of course, and he wants you to keep the ring, I'm assuming as a kind of apology. I don't think there's anything wrong with keeping the

http://media.zenfs.com/en-US/blogs/partner/massage-m.jpgThis weekend, I was flipping through the book Erotic Massage (hey, it's my job!), and I read about a cool move. Check this out...

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Ask your boyfriend to strip off his clothes and lie naked face down on the bed. Then give him a butt massage! (Do you know we hold lots of tension in that area? It's true!) First, put your hands on his butt and just shake it. It sounds goofy, but the book swears that guys love it. Then, "scoop" the sides of his butt with the palms of your hands and let it drop from within your hands. Squeeze the cheeks with your hands and make your hands into fists to massage him. The book recommends leaning over him so you can use the weight of gravity to help you massage; that way, you don't get as tired.

Voila! Nice moves, don't you think? Would you try it? I'm sure guys would be thrilled!

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Want to make your boyfriend smile? Try this shower trick...

Here's the trick from Smitten reader Tess:

After I've taken a really hot solo shower, I write a message in the fogged-up bathroom mirror (using my finger). I write, 'I love you' or 'You're so hot.' When the steam clears, the message looks like it's disappeared but it comes back again the next time the bathroom gets steamy. So when he walks out of his shower, the message has appeared like magic!

Another Smitten reader, sanm13, had her own shower story:

My hubby and I sometimes shower together, but it isn't always about sex. When he's had a rough day at work, I always tell him to take a hot shower to wash the stress away. Then, I quietly get in with him and wash his back for him. Sometimes it leads to more, other times its just about soothing your partner and letting them know you care.