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The holiday season is almost upon us (no, really), which inevitably means joyous meals spent gathered at festive tables, looking around and thinking, How on earth could I be related to these people? Your super-go-getter older sister, your black-sheep younger brother...and you, the normal one. (Everyone thinks they're the normal one.)
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As it turns out, siblings may have a larger effect on our personalities and lives than any of us suspected. Jeffrey Kluger, author of the new book The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and Sisters Reveal About Us, recently told NPR, "siblings are the longest relationships we'll ever have in our lives. Our parents leave us too soon, our spouses and our kids come along too late." Assuming everyone lives long enough, our siblings are the only people who know us our entire lives.
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So what if you never knew your siblings, only meeting them as adults? Do they have the same effect on
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It's not as if you always need to know how your husband feels about you or his childhood or his purpose here on earth. And it's not as if you want to spend hours on the phone with your dad, uncle, brothers or old college friends. Sometimes you just want one of them to weigh the merits of salad spinners. To help open the lines of communication between you and the men you love, we interviewed three experts to find the most effective ways to get them talking.
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Approach him from the side.
Walking straight up to a man and sitting down directly across from him can trigger his competitive instincts, says executive coach Carol Kinsey Goman, PhD, who counsels business leaders on nonverbal communication. She says that while women prefer talking to each other in a "squared up" position (i.e., across from each other), two men talking casually are more likely to angle their bodies away from each other. You'll have a better chance of getting
Photo: ThinkstockIf you're a cheery person, you may have your DNA to thank. Researchers from the London School of Economics and Political Science found that people tend to be more satisfied with their lives if they possess a version of the 5-HTT gene that is more efficient at transporting the mood-boosting neurotransmitter serotonin.Read More »from The Latest Science on Happiness
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Making joy a goal may not be the best idea. According to a study in the journal Emotion, women who place a high premium on happiness tend to be more depressed, perhaps because they feel disappointed with their failure to meet their high standards.
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A rigorous review in the Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine showed that for depressed people, finding contentment may be as simple as doing nice things: "Positive activity interventions"-such as performing acts of kindness, counting one's blessings, and writing letters of gratitude-reversed apathy, stimulated the brain's
- Oprah.com | Fashion – Tue, Nov 1, 2011 8:59 PM EDT
Photo: Marko Metzinger/Studio DBy Brooke KosofskyRead More »from Fall's Must-Have Skirt: 5 Pleated Pieces (Under $100)
Long or short, wispy or crisp, the classic motif of pretty pleats is cool again.
Spotted Pleated Skirt Tuck a tee or blouse into the ruffled waist of this sweetly spotted knee-length skirt.
$35 | DownEastBasics.com
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Photo: Marko Metzinger/Studio DLush Tea-Length Pleated Skirt Flirty and fun: A long, sheer layer skims over a knee-length black slip.
$39 | Urban1972.com
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Photo: Marko Metzinger/Studio DBurgundy Pleated Skirt Deep, rich burgundy makes this accordian-pleated skirt unusually versatile.
$54 | AmericanApparelStore.com
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Photo: Marko Metzinger/Studio DLine & Dot Print Skirt A rich print in traditional fall tones gives this silky skirt vintage charm.
$69 | Piperlime.com
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Photo: Marko Metzinger/Studio DTwo-Tone Pleated Skirt Pair this two-tone model with a chunky sweater on Sunday, a blazer on Monday.
$88 | AnnTaylor.com
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Photo: ThinkstockThe political strategist explains how detours and shortcomings can get you where you want to go.Read More »from How Donna Brazil Found Her Path to Success
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I stood up to authority.
At 12 I was an assistant softball coach. Telling my mom why I had to bench my sister taught me I could make tough decisions for the greater good.
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I was fiscally irresponsible.
In my 20s, I'd blow all my money on a Eurail pass and return broke but happy. I learned the only way to save was to put my credit cards in the freezer and pour water over them.
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I ran my mouth.
My mom once bought me a cassette player so I'd shut up and listen to some music. If she'd lived to see me on TV, she'd see that worked.
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In 2000 I achieved my dream of managing a presidential campaign-Al Gore's. Though I really believed he could make a difference, the job was stressful and thankless. A few months after we lost, I
Photo: Ben FinkBy Lynn Andriani
The Casserole for People Who Say They Don't Like Casseroles
Crystal Cook and Sandy Pollock-better known as the Casserole Queens-have yet to meet a skeptic who isn't converted by their chicken potpie. Beyond the usual roasted chicken and vegetables, this version has white wine, tarragon and shallots.
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Photo: ThinkstockThe Saturday Night Casserole
Cook's Aunt Joan oozed charm and elegance, and this dish, inspired by one of her recipes, practically does the same. This take on the well-known chicken-and-broccoli casserole is perfect for a dinner party since each portion comes wrapped in its own crepe. It goes well with a crisp white wine like a Sauvignon Blanc.RELATED: 6 Ways to Save the World by Grocery Shopping
Get the recipe: Chicken Divan Crêpes with Gruyère
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Photo: Sally HansenBy Amber Kallor
Are the neighborhood goblins already ringing your doorbell? Get in the spirit fast with one of these quick beauty tricks.
The Monster Mani Mashup
DIY nail art can be tricky and time-consuming. But not these press-on polish strips printed with sparkly spider webs, skulls and crossbones, and miniature ghosts. The best part? No drying time is required, so applying last minute (or even in the car on the way to a costume party) is no problem.
Sally Hansen Nail Polish Strips, $10 each
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These small sparkles come ready to stick on-meaning you won't wind up with more glue on your face than glitter. We also love that each set comes with two strips that can be worn as eyeliner. Pull out that sequined dress from last New Year's Eve (or anything metallic), dust colorful eyeshadow on your lids and dot a few of these around your eyes for a look worthy of Studio 54.RELATED: EveningRead More »from 7 Last Minute Halloween Costumes (Under $20)
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Downward is good. So is squinting. Delia Ephron considers self-reflection from many angles.Read More »from 13 Ways of Looking at My Body
Illustration: Oliver JeffersDefinitely not naked from the back.
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Illustration: Oliver JeffersDownward. At my feet. Crimson nails poking out from under a sheet, saying hello. Very sexy.
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Illustration: Oliver JeffersAs I catch a reflection, walking by a shop window. Unexpected encounters with oneself are always risky: Am I slumping? Am I prepared for a candid glimpse? But my legs never let me down. It seems unfair that after a certain age, a woman with good legs can't walk on her head.
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Illustration: Oliver JeffersWith a dog on my lap.
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Illustration: Oliver JeffersWith a scarf around my neck. The only good thing about whiplash, a friend of mine said after she was rear-ended, is that you get to wear something that conceals your neck.
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Illustration: Oliver JeffersWith sunglasses on. The other day I was having lunch with my sister. I was wearing my
Photo: informationisbeauytiful.netBy Lynn AndrianiRead More »from Your Flavor GPS
When your goal is to make a 30-minute meal, the last thing you want to do is waste the first five of those precious minutes figuring out what, exactly, you're going to whip up for your hungry self. You stare into the open refrigerator, your eyes falling on a package of shrimp you bought yesterday, and then to the asparagus that probably has one more night left before it starts to go limp. You look at the rack on the door, holding all those condiments. "Barbecue sauce? No. Chili sauce? That doesn't go with asparagus, does it?" Your eyes begin to glaze over.
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That's where Taste Buds, an infographic created by data visualists David McCandless and Willow Tyrer, comes in. The simple black-and-white graphic visualizes flavor patterns, with each area covering a different food category, like fish, poultry, root vegetables, etc. The categories are laid out like the spokes of a wheel, so the offshoots of, say,
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Even the most open-minded of us do it: Size a person up based on the little we know about them. We look at the late 20s/early 30-something man wearing the glasses, polo shirt and khakis and think, "Yes, you are clearly an IT guy." The knockout blonde in the low-cut dress? Right, got it, aspiring reality TV star. And despite how many times we judge books by their covers, we're regularly reminded of how often we're wrong in doing so. It happened to me this week with Emily Dickinson, of all people.
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Here's what I thought I knew about the poet: She was an eccentric whose largely hermetic life screamed austerity and mystery. And I can't help it: The first words that pop into my head when I hear her name are always, "Because I could not stop for death" and not "hope is the thing with feathers." So when I read in this post on the New York Times' Diner's Journal blog that she was really into baking, I was shocked.