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    • 3 situations when you shouldn't take no for an answer

      Photo: ThinkstockPhoto: ThinkstockBy Corrie Pikul

      It's the middle of football season, and the head trainer for the New York Jets is pacing around his office. He's tried every drill he can think of, but his players just can't seem to focus. The phone rings. It's a woman--a hypnotherapist, she says. She thinks she can help the players get their heads back in the game. The trainer is familiar with strangers telling him how to improve his team--this is New York, after all--and he tactfully puts her off. That trainer had no idea what he was up against.

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      A couple of months later, Donna Dannenfelser, Ed.D., a Long Island housewife-turned-therapist, is counseling pro football players in her home while her kids watch TV. The team starts turning things around. Fast forward a decade, and Dr. Donna, as the players call her, is advising high-profile patients and working as a supervising producer on a show based on her career (Necessary Roughness, Wednesdays on USA).

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    • 3 Secrets to Making Great Gazpacho

      Photo: Jason LowePhoto: Jason LoweBy Lynn Andriani

      Me, I like to reach for a cold bottle of iced tea mixed with lemonade when I'm feeling wilted by the summer heat. If I were Spanish, though, after waking from my afternoon siesta, I'd probably reach for a bottle of... gazpacho?

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      Yes. Though technically a soup, gazpacho is thirst-quenching enough--and, if you puree it finely, liquid enough--to be drunk straight from the bottle, which is how many Spaniards enjoy it, says Claudia Roden, who spent years researching her new 624-page doorstopper, The Food of Spain. Roden told me gazpacho is so popular in Spain, even supermarkets sell it by the bottle. For the rest of us, though, it's easy enough to make at home. And if you're so inclined, I've found the perfect gazpacho containers (funnel required).

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      Roden says:

      1. Use very ripe tomatoes
      2. For the bread that helps thicken the soup, use a hearty

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    • 25 Proven Ways to Beat the Blues

      Photo: ThinkstockPhoto: Thinkstock"The best thing for being sad...is to learn something," said T.H. White in The Once and Future King. This has nothing to do with academic drudgery and everything to do with the fact that mastering a technique, sharpening a skill, doing something you didn't know how to do before, proves anything is possible. Here are 25 ways to brighten up those little gray cells.

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      1. Memorize one good joke.

      2. Learn how to land a triple lutz...or maybe just how to skate backward.

      3. Teach yourself not to take the bait the next time a loved one starts pestering you.

      4. Master Italian (or American Sign Language, German, Spanish, French, Pig Latin...)

      5. Have a kid show you one foolproof magic trick.

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      6. Perfect your margarita-making technique.

      7. Enroll in a bookbinding course.

      8. Read everything by a single author whom you've been meaning to get to for years. Faulkner? Melville? Auden? Colette?

      9. Knit yourself or

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    • Quick Fixes for All Your Summer Skin Issues

      Photo: Roger NevePhoto: Roger NeveBy Jenny Bailly

      Trust us: It's way too hot to wear pants. Here's how to get your legs (and arms, and chest) ready for the season's skin-baring outfits.

      A Spotless Décolletage
      A retinoid cream-either prescription, like Retin-A, or over-the-counter (look for retinol in the ingredient list)-will lighten discoloration and soften rough patches caused by sun damage. Two to four treatments with a KTP laser or intense pulsed light (IPL) can more dramatically minimize both the brown spots and redness caused by UV exposure. (Cost: At least $500 per session.) A fractional nonablative laser, like the Fraxel Dual, greatly improves not just the color but also the texture of the skin. You'll probably need at least two treatments. (Cost: Around $1,000 each.)

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      Silky Legs
      A rich shaving cream and a four-blade razor (try Bic Soleil Bella, $7) are all you need to get smooth legs for at least a day or two. Laser treatments can drastically

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    • Ballpark Food That Outshines the Game

      Photo: ThinkstockPhoto: ThinkstockBy Lynn Andriani

      Maybe you follow baseball. Or maybe you find yourself following someone you love--who happens to love baseball--to the nearest stadium. If so, you might have noticed that Major League ballpark food has left the traditional peanuts and Cracker Jacks in the dust.

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      I kept hearing that the gourmet offerings at many of the country's newer stadiums threaten to steal the show, so I asked around and found six foods baseball fans can't get enough of. Even if your interest in America's pastime is limited to the endearing if ragtag group of dogs named for the Yankee shortstop, you'll want to try these recipes and make a playoff-worthy version of them at home.

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      Ballpark: AT&T Park
      Team: San Francisco Giants
      Must-try concession: Crazy Crab'z, center field
      What to order: Dungeness crab sandwich with mayonnaise and tomato, served in a grilled garlic butter sourdough baguette.
      Make it at home:

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    • How to Deal With the Boss from Hell

      Illustration: Marisa MarchettoIllustration: Marisa MarchettoBy Suzy Welch

      About a year ago, I bumped into a friend whose daughter, Amanda, used to drive me a little crazy when she was in high school. Not because she committed any of the typical teenage transgressions but because she was perfect. She got great grades, made captain of two teams, played violin in the school orchestra, and was completely down-to-earth and cheerful to boot. So it was with trepidation, as the mother of mere mortals, that I asked after this girl-by then a college graduate working at a well-known company.

      "Oh my God, she is terrible," came the grief-stricken reply. "Her life is in ruins. She has a bad boss."

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      Instantly, my heart broke for Amanda. She had joined the ranks of humankind.

      "Well, it happens to all of us," I told her mother sadly.

      "I know-I went through it," she said with a sigh. "But I just quit and married Bill. Amanda doesn't have a Bill. She has only herself."

      Exactly. Some of the most successful careers

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    • How to Talk to Your Daughter (or Your Mother!) About Sex

      Illustration: Christopher Silas NealIllustration: Christopher Silas NealBy Catherine Price

      What do you most want to know about your mom but would never ask? When psychoanalyst Joyce McFadden posed this question to hundreds of women in an online survey that began in 2006, she was surprised by their answers: Half of the respondents wanted to know more about their mothers' sexuality.

      The queries ranged from the seemingly straightforward to the profound: "Did she date other men before my dad?" "Had she had an abortion?" "Why did she have an affair?" In her new book, Your Daughter's Bedroom, McFadden explores the great value in sharing these kinds of intimate secrets-even when it's awkward to do so. Understanding our mothers, she says, is vital to understanding ourselves. We asked McFadden how to get the conversation started.

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      Q: Why are these discussions so hard?
      It's not easy to blurt out the private details of your life to anyone. But moms often don't discuss their sexual pasts because they're

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    • 6 Health Secrets from Around the Globe

      Photo: Dan SaelingerPhoto: Dan SaelingerBy Dr. Mehmet Oz

      From the Japanese to the Russians, the Greeks to the Kuna Indians of Panama, every culture has its own secrets to better health and longer life. These traditional remedies and practices-like drinking a calming herbal tea or cooking with a particular spice-might seem inconsequential, but researchers are discovering that these little things can make a world of difference. Try importing these six habits, all worth bringing home.

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      Photo: ThinkstockPhoto: ThinkstockPanama

      The Secret
      Harvard professor Norman Hollenberg, MD, PhD, has spent years studying the Kuna, an indigenous tribe on the San Blas Islands who drink five cups or more of unprocessed cocoa a day. He discovered that compared with residents of mainland Panama, who generally drink nutrient-poor grocery store cocoa, the islanders' risk of cancer, diabetes, stroke, and heart disease is reduced to less than 10 percent. They can likely thank cocoa's flavonoids, powerful antioxidants with a host of

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    • E-reader? Audiobook? The Best Format for 4 Summer Must-Reads

      Illustration: Kagan McLeodIllustration: Kagan McLeodFrom old-fashioned ink and paper to the crystal clear screen of an iPad, here's the best way to enjoy 4 of our favorite titles.

      Ink and Paper (a.k.a. the old-fashioned way)

      Jennifer Egan's A Visit From the Good Squad is a winner any way you can get it, but the tried-and-true book version (Anchor) doesn't distort the PowerPoint chapter the way some e-readers do.

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      Illustration: Kagan McLeodIllustration: Kagan McLeodiPad or Nook

      Everybody loves Keith Richards's edgy voice, which echoes through his Rolling Stones memoir, Life, but admit it: What we also want is a good look at the spectacular photo inserts. Any e-reader will reproduce them, but even the old black-and-white images look better on a color device.

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      Illustration: Kagan McLeodIllustration: Kagan McLeodKindle

      Unless you have a very big tote bag (and Michelle Obama arms), save your strength and read Autobiography of Mark Twain, Volume 1 on your Amazon device: 760 pages and $22 as a book, it costs $10 in digital form and increases

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    • The Skinny on New Summer Shapewear

      Photo: Sergio KurhajecPhoto: Sergio KurhajecBy Adam Glassman

      The latest pieces shape, support and stretch, making clothes fit better over a broader weight range.

      Smart Bras

      The new Adjusts-To-Me underwire has ingenious elastane cups that stretch and contract as your weight changes-no more buying multiple sizes.

      Bra, Lilyette by Maidenform, $34, maidenform.com

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      Photo: Sergio KurhajecPhoto: Sergio KurhajecLightweight Slips

      In whisper-thin fabrics, these pieces are perfect for when you want a smoothing effect under a dress. Yummie Tummie's Lavonne bustless slip pairs with your favorite bra to prevent chest-flattening.

      Slip, Yummie Tummie, $78, yummietummie.com

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      Photo: Sergio KurhajecPhoto: Sergio KurhajecArm Coverage

      The Have Nots shaper comes in a supportive three-quarter sleeve that's adjustable to above or below the elbow.

      Shaper, Slimpressions, $64, Slimpressions.com

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      Photo: Sergio KurhajecPhoto: Sergio KurhajecPretty Pieces

      The Elegant Shaping Long Leg Shaper briefs have a woven

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