The Tower card reversed suggests that the damage may have already been done. If you are sticking your head in the sand for fear that facing the drama head-on might be ruinous, you might be surprised if the inevitable impact or shock isn't as drastic as you though. The other person might actually be expecting it. If you have built barriers of arrogance or inadequacy, your illusions may be dispelled in a flash. An unexpected moment of comeuppance or surprise could knock you off your pedestal like a bolt out of the blue.
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- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Mon, Jun 3, 2013 12:16 PM EDT
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Fri, May 31, 2013 11:52 AM EDT
The Two of Swords card reversed suggests that letting down your guard to make an impulsive connection could release sexual tension or break a relationship stand-off, or it may precede a romantic reunion, infatuation or confrontation. While you might think that taking the first step is beneath you, you can make a move while still being respectful of your own feelings. On the contrary, efforts to remain distant, anonymous or indifferent may not work once admissions are made, blinders are removed or previous hurts are recognized or overcome. You may be too close to the situation to view the matter objectively. Listen to the voice of reason and see the truth.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Thu, May 30, 2013 12:02 PM EDT
The Hermit card reversed suggests that you may feel insecure. Take extra care that you don't come across as defensive, shut others out or treat those who show concern or interest with hostility, or else you could ignite sentiments such as 'good riddance' or 'they're just jealous.' Lighten up and you might find what you seek, but don't fall victim to someone who may prey on your vulnerability or feelings of isolation or pretend to know what you are going through. You may need to face the truth alone.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Wed, May 29, 2013 11:24 AM EDT
The King of Swords card reversed suggests that the question may be, 'Do you want to be right -- and alone?' Consider softening your approach. Reconsidering a criticism or hard-line stance on a matter could improve your relationship or love life. In matters of love, reason, statistics or facts may not add up to happiness and they could mean a cold heart, particularly if you are holding out for this King's conditional approval. In an ironic twist, it could be your respectful, compassionate refusal to defer or obey that breaks him or melts his heart or gets him to make an exception to the rule. Avoid the temptation to retaliate in kind or to take preemptive measures that could be premature. Know that love and truth will find a way, with or without him.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Tue, May 28, 2013 12:05 PM EDT
The Knave of Chalices card reversed suggests that a troubled childhood, being possessive or a lack of or emotional validation could be responsible for hurt feelings or the loss of certain long-held romantic ideals. You could be asking, 'What was I thinking?' or 'Why bother?' If you are caught up in petty quarrels, manipulation or promiscuity, or are feeling defensive, victimized, confused or paralyzed by fear, you may not be able to move forward in your love life or relationship. A heart-to-heart could renew enthusiasm or help you to become emotionally available.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Fri, May 24, 2013 12:12 PM EDT
The Six of Wands card reversed suggests that your relationship could be suffering from jealousy and miscommunication, or you could be involved with a high-profile but socially unacceptable person and are unable to publicly demonstrate affection or any sort of romantic connection. The cat may be out of the bag, however, due to a matter dealing with pride or jealousy. A struggle could result, but you and your lover may not be built to go the distance. It may be time to put yourself back in the dating game.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Thu, May 23, 2013 12:52 PM EDT
The Ten of Wands card suggests that you may bring a lot of sexual, dating or romantic experience or energy to your relationship or union. You may feel as if you are defending or protecting your honor, performance or reputation or working to the detriment of your love life. You are getting close to a long-awaited consummation, reunion, milestone, love connection or commitment. You may be in a position to discover soul mate after sowing your wild oats. Take matters into your own hands -- it's a good time to prove or redeem yourself.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Wed, May 22, 2013 11:31 AM EDT
The King of Wands card reversed suggests that you should try not to torment yourself over the past or over that which you can not control, especially through denial, which could make for a defensive attitude. Be open to a move or to reassessing relationship goals, for there may be little or nothing left to get out of this situation as it stands now. Watch out for a tendency to drown in nostalgia, for reminiscing over past achievements take precedence over planning for future endeavors. That could intimate that the glory days or passionate adventures are all behind you. Use this energy to plug your relationship or love life back into a power source.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Tue, May 21, 2013 11:57 AM EDT
The Knave of Pentacles card reversed suggests that frustration over finances or paperwork may be overwhelming or hurting your relationship or love life. Make sure resources aren't used carelessly on superficial displays of extravagance or cheap physical indulgences, otherwise you may be caught in a vicious cycle of working harder for ultimately superficial goals. Set some realistic objectives that can aid in the process of simplifying your life. Be willing to work together and you can turn things around.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Mon, May 20, 2013 11:53 AM EDT
The Four of Chalices card reversed suggests that you may be expecting an offer to remain indefinitely, but ignoring the facts of the matter might not bring the results you anticipate, and could lead to regret. Yet reaching out or accepting a compassionate and sincere offer of love, support or commitment could renew hope and passion and bring reconciliation. This could be a second chance to put the brakes on self-pity, come out of a romantic slump and rejoin life. Otherwise unresolved issues or fears may come to a head as dissatisfaction and longing become more difficult to hide. Communicating your feelings and considering how the other person feels could help alter your perspective.