The Three of Swords card reversed suggests that you can overcome this hurt or loss once you get the hint about taking things too personally or too much to heart. The worst may have already passed, but now it is up to you. You can either see things clearly and let go or choose to let the pain consume you. However, you are not alone. There are others who have had similar experiences and are learning to trust or love again. Lean on these people for guidance on confronting and overcoming heartbreak. Learn how to turn hurt into self-empowerment and action by pledging 'never again' to intimidation, jealousy, ignorance or blind trust -- and then move on. Lay low and objectively let go of the emotional drama. Holding onto it only increases tension and puts you on the defensive.
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- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Mon, Aug 20, 2012 12:38 PM EDT
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Fri, Aug 17, 2012 1:42 PM EDT
The Seven of Swords card suggests that a bold approach might give you the upper hand in this matter. In fact, the possibility of being caught with your hand in the proverbial cookie jar might be half the thrill. You might need a cover or lookout, so enlist those on the inside to keep watch during your daring escapade, deception or tryst. To avoid unnecessary confrontation, be certain not to leave any little reminders of your intentions. This might be difficult -- you could be tempted to do so just to prove your ability to outwit people, particularly if you are simply playing games. Watch your back and be careful in whom you place your trust, for you could be in league with people who have motives of their own.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Thu, Aug 16, 2012 1:41 PM EDT
The Sun card suggests that when you accept and love yourself, you are poised to fully enjoy a healthy and balanced love life or relationship. You may thrive in a partnership as each of you brings out the best in the other, and you may be content to exist in a world of your own creation. Just make sure that neither of you relies too much on the other for self-worth or support, as this can become an unwanted burden.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Wed, Aug 15, 2012 1:11 PM EDT
The Emperor card suggests that you have the strength of your convictions. People know you can be counted on to perform or to be reasonable when passions get hot, but you may have issues with accepting the independence of your love interest, particularly when it comes to being the provider or protector. Don't try to force the issue -- be dependable and you can earn respect by being a positive role model.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Tue, Aug 14, 2012 11:34 AM EDT
The Four of Wands card reversed suggests that you may be facing a turning point in your romantic situation, or that you have achieved your romantic goals in an unexpected or private way. Like the Peggy Lee song, you may now be asking, 'Is that all there is?' While this sentiment is normal, it is wise not to gloss over it. It is a good time to reflect on fundamentally divergent or opposing ideas for your goals as a couple.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Mon, Aug 13, 2012 12:24 PM EDT
The Ten of Wands card reversed suggests that you got what you wished for and may have been carried away by good intentions, desire or passion ... but now what? Your energetic sense of commitment may now give way to stress or fatigue, and you may be stalling or looking for a way out. A sure sign is if you are backing off from promises, reunions, proposals or gatherings.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Fri, Aug 10, 2012 1:01 PM EDT
The Queen of Pentacles card reversed suggests that making material quantity or trendy indulgences the foundation of this Queen's success or identity may create a false sense of deprivation, want or burden. Rather than finding pleasure or gratitude in earthly gifts, she may struggle with neglect, false sexuality, resentment or vanity or take superficial pride in spending money in an effort to keep up, buy love or entice a man. Be aware that you could succumb to her influence and fall into the same trap of living only for the moment. Humble gratitude and understanding for what has real value and meaning for you or simply honoring womanhood for her most abundant gifts and glorious, wild imperfections might be the message here.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Thu, Aug 9, 2012 12:57 PM EDT
The King of Chalices card reversed suggests that old-fashioned traditions may need to be bucked, particularly if a midlife crisis or selfishness is cutting you off from intimacy. Consider diving right in with an alternate approach, as jealousy, obsessing, dreaming or wishing from afar may not be enough to save a sinking ship or a drowning relationship. Tap into the strength of your alter ego in order to rise above sexual dysfunction, depression, emotional numbness or self-destructive behaviors. Let this be the catharsis that turns the tide. If there is no love lost, then jump ship. If you are committed, take the helm and ride it out, for healing and forgiveness may be borne along on the tidal waves of tender love and commitment.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Wed, Aug 8, 2012 12:09 PM EDT
The Four of Chalices card suggests that a gift of love and support may be offered to you by a compassionate, committed or reliable source willing to go out on a limb just when you feel like no one cares. If you are too wrapped up in your perceived problems, you might not recognize the attempt at outreach and miss the opportunity that could lead to romantic renewal. Don't focus too much on what you don't have, or you could become resentful or condescending of the happiness and passion of others.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Tue, Aug 7, 2012 11:54 AM EDT
The Eight of Swords card reversed suggests that you may feel at your wit's end. You sense that you are unable to cope with the reality of your love life, or are bound by circumstance, duty or criticism, but you are too fearful or in the dark regarding your options to confront the situation. Normally, you might be guarded or give thought to consequences, but enough may be enough. You might finally be ready to remove the blinders, forgive or accept yourself, and assert your independence. The 'some day' you might be waiting for might be today. It may be the right time for a moment of revelation, discovery or surprise, when that which has been hidden or unknown is revealed. Your self-esteem and confidence could rise as a result. Be particular and uphold your newly discovered standards.