The King of Wands card reversed suggests that you should try not to torment yourself over the past or over that which you can not control, especially through denial, which could make for a defensive attitude. Be open to a move or to reassessing relationship goals, for there may be little or nothing left to get out of this situation as it stands now. Watch out for a tendency to drown in nostalgia, for reminiscing over past achievements take precedence over planning for future endeavors. That could intimate that the glory days or passionate adventures are all behind you. Use this energy to plug your relationship or love life back into a power source.
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- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Fri, May 8, 2009 1:27 AM EDT
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Thu, May 7, 2009 1:48 AM EDT
The Five of Wands card reversed suggests that the days of competing in the dating game may be over or that the thrill is gone. You could feel momentarily stable, bored or in control. The boundaries may be determined by how you expressed yourself during the time when you were attempting to win your lover or position. As a result, you may not believe the real you is being heard or taken seriously. Make sure avoidance, neglect or the silent treatment do not ensue.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Wed, May 6, 2009 1:41 AM EDT
The Lovers card reversed suggests that you may not be fully committed or have other ties (or apron strings) that are keeping you from making a decision or considering a proposal or rendezvous. Being jealous, avoiding responsibility, blaming or remaining in a self-deceptive love triangle can't go on indefinitely -- it only postpones the inevitable. Something's got to give or an impartial choice may need to be made. A third party could help to clarify things.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Tue, May 5, 2009 1:28 AM EDT
The Moon card suggests that if you are in the dark and caught up in illusion where love is concerned, then false motives or inconsistencies may be revealed or a choice may need to be made. As a result, you could feel moody or unsettled. If you go with your gut, it might turn out to be a good time for romance or spontaneous acts of passion -- provided they are expressions of your true nature, rather than being created from a need for acceptance.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Mon, May 4, 2009 10:48 PM EDT
The Five of Pentacles card suggests that your perceived deficiencies, anxieties or cravings may only exist in comparison to the group that you feel is excluding you. Remember that you have options. You are a survivor, able to deal with the flaws of your partner and the cold shoulder from those who see your values as unusual or suspect. Either may be putting a strain on your love life. You can find strength in adversity, so don't be too quick to curse your lot. Be willing to face the unknown hardships for the sake of future improvements, growth and acceptance. Soon you will be in a place where you can express yourself fully. For better or worse, you may still have each other as well as your faith that some good can come of this.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Fri, May 1, 2009 1:09 AM EDT
The King of Pentacles card reversed suggests that too much value is placed on quantity over quality. An emphasis on material goods and how they reflect on your identity could cheapen your own goals or pleasures and could determine how a potential or current partner views you as well. Don't sell yourself short, and be careful when mixing business with pleasure. Consider, too, that life is not a spectator sport, and that you may be withering on the vine. It might be time to rejoin society and redefine your place in it, for you can only reap what you sow. As such, dilettante attempts at romance can't return a perennial, long-term commitment any more than you can make a silk purse out of a sow's ear -- no matter how many pearls you drape upon it.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Work + Money – Tue, Apr 28, 2009 11:44 PM EDT
The Ace of Swords card reversed suggests that at this time certain factors don't add up to a convincing argument. You may not have all the information you need to make a definite decision or to direct the question toward its logical conclusion as it relates to your love life or relationship. Trust and respect your inner voice before turning to outside opinion. You may not be ready to take the next logical step, are not seeing things clearly or are at odds with your personal convictions. Don't give in to self-doubt or it will make you vulnerable to disrespect, excuses or distrust. Demonstrate consideration and honor for yourself, or no one else will, either. Respect your need for more time and 'know thyself' before you make any declarations, connections or contact, but don't overthink things.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Tue, Apr 28, 2009 1:42 AM EDT
The High Priestess card suggests that a little mystery can be more of a turn-on or attraction than putting it all out there or giving it away. This strategy and the use of body language can go a long way toward satisfying your secret romantic intentions or leaving a good impression. Have faith in your plans, but don't become overly emotional or turn into an ice queen if things don't work out exactly as you expected. Never let 'em see you sweat, and don't make apologies for who you are just to feel valued by others.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Sat, Apr 25, 2009 1:27 AM EDT
The Temperance card suggests that the timing may be right for sharing your feelings, getting together, creating something new or pouring your heart out, but don't expect a quick fix. This could be the beginning of a creative process of cooperation, diversity, sexual compatibility or testing of the romantic waters, so be prepared to go with the flow or to set new relationship goals that can work for the long term. Patience, trust, compromise and self-control can bring moderate, consistent and stable results as long as you are not afraid to get your feet wet.
- Astrology.com Tarot | Love + Sex – Fri, Apr 24, 2009 1:42 AM EDT
The Six of Swords card suggests that the worst might be over, but now what? It may be time to accept the facts -- move out of your comfort zone, seek refuge or guidance from someone in the same boat in order to resolve, reconcile and move on. See your way out of a negative situation, for it may have nothing left to offer you. Rebuilding trust or seeking a better life needs to be done although you may not meet it with much enthusiasm or confidence. Make sure you don't take your previous baggage with you on this emigration. You must dump the heartbreak, resentment, tension, dependency or ties that burden you, otherwise you could recreate similar conditions or trade one hardship or bad relationship for another.