I didn't love my curly hair until after my youngest child was born. My hair is long and dark, kinky and curly, and when I was three months postpartum, about a quarter of it fell out. When it grew back in, it was silver and nearly straight. Finally, I had what every hair product on the market had promised -- and failed -- to deliver: Hair that was shiny and sleek and bouncy and biddable. Hair that was "good." Hair that I finally loved, even if it was grayer than before.
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The curls reasserted themselves a few months later, but by then it didn't matter because I had crossed over my hair-hating barrier. I'm as curly now as I ever was before, and I still love my hair. Ads for beauty products are inescapable, though, and since I no longer buy into the straight-hair hype, I can't help but notice the negative language that the beauty industry uses when marketing products to curly girls.
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