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- HowAboutWe | Love + Sex – Mon, Mar 19, 2012 1:29 PM EDT
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FightBy Chiara Atik for HowAboutWeRead More »from The Worst Thing You Can Say to Your Girlfriend in a Fight
Modern Man recently posted an article entitled, "How to Win an Argument With Your Girlfriend," which I obviously immediately read, because, well, gotta know the enemy's strategies, right?
The article was full of sound advice - talk in the first person, don't bring your friend's opinions into it, don't make empty threats, etc, etc. But one point in particular struck me as especially sage advice for guys who find themselves arguing with their girlfriends.
Related: The Six Words You Should Never Utter on a First Date
No matter how ugly things get, no matter how angry you feel, there is one thing you must never, ever, ever say to a woman:
Aaaaaarrrrrrgggghhhhh there is nothing more belittling or aggravating than a guy who tells you to calm down.
First of all, I am calm. You don't want to see not calm.
Related: The Break-Up Tipping Point
Second of all, telling me to "relax" or "calm down" is basically the same thing as telling me I'm
- HowAboutWe | Love + Sex – Wed, Mar 7, 2012 2:12 PM EST
- HowAboutWe | Love + Sex – Mon, Mar 5, 2012 6:11 PM EST1) The Single Still Mourning Their Last Relationship
Your last relationship was a doozy: a Nicholas Sparks-worthy tale of passion, love, and resentment. You might feel like you need a few years to tend to your depleted emotional wells after that break-up. In the meantime, you may find yourself half-heartedly dating, but your heart's just not into it yet. Instead, you'd rather talk about your last relationship to your (very patient) friends. Don't worry - we've all been there.
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By Amanda Green for HowAboutWeRead More »from Where to Date in Boston: The Top 10 Date Spots
By Amanda Green for HowAboutWeRead More »from Where to Date in L.A.: The Top 10 Date Spots
Here are the top 10 date spots, according to where people are posting dates on HowAboutWe.com. Plus, see our collection of the 10 best date spots in 15 U.S. cities .
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