By Aaron Traister, REDBOOK
DEAR WHYS GUY:
"I have been with my husband for 22 years. Lately I've noticed that he would much rather watch porn on his phone than have sex with me. Please tell me: Does he watch it so that he can fantasize about being with someone else?"
DEAR REDBOOK READER:
There is a very sad little space reserved at the bottom wrung of the porn addict ladder for guys who are addicted to porn on their phones. At least he could watch the porn on the computer-because he's going to ruin his eyes watching it on his phone. Anyway, I can't tell you why he's watching the tiny phone porn, and frankly, it doesn't much matter; it matters that he's choosing it over actual physical encounters with you. Porn should be a tool of last resort for guys, or used as an enhancement for some couples. It is not a good sign when it is the first choice for a guy. All signs suggest that your sex life is in someRead More »from Dear Whys Guy: "Why Does He Prefer Phone Videos Over Me?"