Read these and mini golf will seem so highbrow! The takeaway: Just do whatever makes the two of you happy.
1. Staying Close...With Guns? "We go to our cowboy action shooting club. We dress up in Western gear, shoot guns, and pretend to be in the Wild West. Seriously." - Rose Tepedino, Oakdale, NY
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2. Geeky Convention-Goers: "My husband and I go to sci-fi conventions. He gets to see all the Star Wars toys he used to have, and I connect with other Buffy the Vampire Slayer lovers. It's our geeky bonding time!" - Melinda Rodriguez, Dallas
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3. Bowling Partners: "My husband and I joined a bowling league. We bring our own shoes and balls, and we always wear matching shirts." - Jennifer Davis, Pasadena, MD
4. A Ghastly Pastime: "My husband and I go ghost hunting in old buildings and graveyards. We bring our electromagnetic field detector, which goes off if there's a ghost. It's very scary,
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Not all of us are blessed with a perky, plump bosom. Luckily, with the right tools and tips, you can flaunt your assets with the rest of 'em.
1. Smooth Things Out: The décolleté (pronounced, for the record, "day-col-TAY") shows age fast, thanks to the lack of subcutaneous fat and all the sun exposure it gets, says New York City dermatologist Hilary Reich, M.D. "Women know to apply sunscreen to their faces but often forget to cover their chest when wearing low necklines." Be sure to extend your facial sunscreen downward whenever your chest is going to see the light of day. For the damage that's done, use a mild scrub, such as Palmer's Cocoa Butter Formula Gentle Exfoliating Facial Scrub, $10, a few times a week. To add a sexy glow, moisturize daily with a cream that has light-reflecting pigments. We like Hawaiian Tropic Shimmer Effect Lotion Sunscreen SPF 20, $7.99.
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2. Never Let 'Em See You Sweat: If you tend to get
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You may be a whiz at comparing travel rates online, but it turns out that good old conversation could save you a lot more. In a Consumer Reports poll of 1,000 people, 83 percent said they'd nabbed a better hotel rate simply by-shocker-asking. It's even more of a possibility now, given lower occupancy rates in hotels, reduced demand for rental cars, and the scramble to fill every last room for the holidays. So start talking and get what you want for less.
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1. Keep Asking for Breaks: Before you leave for your trip, search online for current hotel and car rates. If they're lower than what you got, says Peter Frank, creator of the travel blog Let's Be Frank, "call and ask for that rate." At the hotel or car place, tell the clerk if you're on a trip for a special occasion, like a birthday or anniversary. Then ask, "Any chance of an upgrade?" For hotels, it helps to arrive later in the day. "Last year, our family got to a Vermont ski resort
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Twenty percent of Americans say they'd take a 5-percent pay cut if they could work a few days at home. But you may not have to sacrifice a penny. Follow these tips from Leslie Truex, author of The Work-at-Home Success Bible, on how to ask your boss for this prized perk.
1. Prepare your case: Make a list of tasks you can do at home and another of those that require in-office time, plus an outline of how you'll stay connected.
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2. Broadcast the benefits: Set a meeting with your boss, and point out how working at home could benefit the company-perhaps you'll save resources or free up space. Note that studies show at-home workers are happier in their jobs, take fewer sick days, and are more productive.
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3. Focus on your job, not your life: Your commute and child-care dilemmas are not your company's concern. Ditch the complaints and focus on how much you
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These ladies may be fictional, but their on-screen friendships form the most iconic female bonds of all time.
1. Sex and the City: They single-handedly doubled sales of Manolos, cosmos, and dildos!
2. Thelma and Louise: Not even a young, naked Brad Pitt could come between these two-who kept their vow to stay friends till the very, very end.
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3. Waiting to Exhale: "You set his what on fire?" The ladies of Waiting to Exhale took each other's drama in stride.
4. Beaches: They love each other, they hate each other-the first half is melodramatic gold. But the real jackpot? The cathartic weep-till-you're-tired finish.
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5. Friends: Most women would go Bridezilla if their maid of honor revealed a surprise pregnancy on their big day, but let's face it: These were the ultimate Friends.
6. The Women: Who needs men? Not one appeared in this film classic-and the ladies were better off
- Redbook | Parenting – Wed, Jun 22, 2011 3:58 PM EDT
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Think peer pressure is just something teenagers at parties have to worry about? Then you haven't been to preschool lately. And I'm not talking about little Johnny pressuring my kid into wearing his shirt backwards every day (although that happened too)-I'm talking about the parents. As adults we're supposed to be above all that caring-what-other-people-think crap and yet as anyone who's ended up with the snack bucket knows, we parents can be just as pushy as any horny teenager at prom. To be perfectly clear: I am not saying any of these things are bad, and if you enjoy doing them, then I'm happy that you're happy-just don't try to make me feel bad about not doing them too.
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What do you get when a Mormon, a Lutheran, a Catholic and a Muslim walk into a gym? As incongruous as it sounds, best friends! (And here you thought you were going to get the punchline to a wildly insensitive joke!) My three best girlfriends and I all met at our local YMCA. Ostensibly we were there to workout-all of us having new babies, had to drop the baby weight, right?-but in reality we were just there to escape our other kids for an hour thanks to the free childcare. Despite our obvious differences, we have discovered we are far more alike than we are similar. From diaper explosions to arguments with our husbands, this familiarity has lead to some serious hilarity. And because of this, as any woman knows, there are some things that only your best girlfriend can tell you:
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A: Times are tough-layoffs and salary freezes are more common than ever. Nevertheless, your job responsibilities have changed and grown, so you should address this situation with your manager as soon as you can. If you don't, you'll only build resentment and also miss a valuable opportunity for professional growth.
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Get some major girlfriend bonding time with one of these creative day trip ideas.
1. Swirl, smell, sip, repeat: The combination of your friends and a few bottles of wine guarantees your day will be filled with giggles. There are wineries in every state; go to allamericanwineries.com to find one in your area, and then tour, taste, and explore. Just be sure to designate a driver or hire a car-a few sips can go to your head fast!
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2. Go on a nature adventure: If your gal pals are an adventurous crew, plan a day full of activities to get your adrenaline rushing. At whitewater.com you can search for rafting, kayaking, and canoeing day trips in your state, or go to trails.com (you'll have to create a free registration) to search for local hiking trails for every fitness level.
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3. Say "spaaaah": A trip to the spa is the ultimate way to indulge. Meet up in the relaxation room between
Dear Whys Guy: "Why Does My Expect Me To Hang Out With His Friends When He Won't Hang Out with Mine?"By Redbook | Work + Money – Tue, Jun 21, 2011 4:24 PM EDT
By Aaron Traister, REDBOOKRead More »from Dear Whys Guy: "Why Does My Expect Me To Hang Out With His Friends When He Won't Hang Out with Mine?"
DEAR WHYS GUY:
Why does my husband expect me to hang out with his friends, but when I ask him to hang out with mine, he makes an excuse to get out of it?
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DEAR REDBOOK READER:
I get variations on this question all the time, and I never know how to give one single answer. Maybe he doesn't like your friends. Maybe he feels awkward and insecure in large groups of women. Maybe he really wants to, but his excuses are real and he just can't get his schedule to work. Maybe he doesn't even expect you to hang out with his friends and would be cool with you bailing to go do your own thing.
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This is one of those questions you have to go straight to the source with: Ask your husband.
There is one other thing I would add. Why do we feel it's important to be friends with our significant others' friends? I married Karel, not her friends. I kind of like