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They may have more money, and nannies, and a whole other lifestyle, but when it comes to feelings about their children, celebrity mothers are not all that different from the rest of us. There is something about the experience of motherhood, the incredible love one has for her child, and the fear (and joy) that comes from being responsible for an innocent life that makes all mothers, at heart, the same. Here are some famous mothers on what motherhood means to them, and what they've learned from it.

Being a Mom Made Me . . .
"Realize that life is an adventure. No two days are ever the same, which is so exciting." - Jada Pinkett Smith, actress and mother to Trey, Jaden, and Willow

Also important: keeping your marriage strong and sexy. Here's how Jada and Will do it.

"Being a mom has made me so tired. And so happy." - Tina Fey, actress, writer and producer, and mother to Alice

Try these tips to boost your energy.

"Being a mom made me fear for the first time in my life. The stakes felt

It can be really tough to carve out time just for you, especially when your spouse, kids, and job take every moment you've got. But a few minutes all to yourself can work wonders on both your mental and physical health. A few women share their favorite just-for-me moments and show us how simple activities can banish stress and help you refocus.

"I practice a yoga move."
"Your body and mind are like your computer. All three need a regular opportunity to shut down and restart! So whenever I'm feeling overwhelmed or fatigued, I like to lie on my back with my legs up on the wall. This move clears my head, helps me relax my muscles, gets rid of my headache if I have one, and restores my sense of calm. Putting my legs up the wall is also a great way to recharge at that low-blood-sugar time of day instead of having coffee or a candy bar. By restoring blood flow to the brain and getting a different perspective, I give myself a chance to regroup."
- Noel Schroeder, 39, yoga instructor/energy

Ever wanted to know what goes on inside the male mind during sex? Well, you can stop waiting for your guy to tell you what he's thinking when things get hot and heavy! We have the lowdown on what real men think about kissing, hot dates, foreplay, fantasies, getting busy, and more.

On what gets him in a sexy state of mind: "I think my wife is totally hot. She'll point out what she perceives as flaws, but I think she's nuts. Even if I'm not in the mood, I'll catch a glimpse of her taking off her bra, and bam! I'm in the mood. Which is great at night, but slightly problematic in the morning if she's trying to throw some clothes on to make her train." -Dan, 31

On all-day foreplay: "One Saturday morning, my wife and I started fooling around, but before it could get hot and heavy, she jumped in the shower. Then we went shopping. But whenever we had a semi-private moment, she'd touch me. By lunchtime all I had on my mind was sex. When we finally got home, we went at it as if we hadn't seen

Ah, summer. We love your warm weather and adorable fashions, but you make shopping a little tough too. Between finding a swimsuit to fit our shape and finding the perfect pair of shades, summer styles are enough to make a lady a little frustrated. But never fear. There really is a pair of sunglasses out there just for your face shape, and the right style and shape make you look cool on even the hottest of days. How to get the right shape for you? We've got your guide.


Aviators
Works for every face - but be sure to choose a version that covers your eyebrows. This timeless shape has survived decades of trend cycles - and is as chic as ever.

Layer jewelry the right way


Oversize Square Flatters round and heart-shaped faces. You'll look like a modern-day Jackie O. hiding behind these large frames.

Tailor your summer beauty routine to your skin type



Wayfarer
Balances a strong jawline. These classic-cool shades will add the perfect dose of rock 'n' roll to your look.

Find the best jeans

Breast cancer is scary, and while there is a lot to learn from survival, recovery can be difficult. Your hair may be different, and if your breasts were removed, it may be difficult to feel sexy anymore, or have doubts that your husband is still attracted to you.

Would your gynecologist spot cancer?

We asked Hilda Hutcherson, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Columbia University's College of Physicians and Surgeons in New York City and the author of Pleasure for thoughts on feeling sexy again after such an ordeal. Here's what she said:

Your body may have changed, but you are still the same woman your husband fell in love with and, I am sure, still loves. Experiencing sexual pleasure with your husband can be an important part of the healing process. You are so much more than your breasts, so please stop worrying that you are no longer attractive. You are still a beautiful person. Find the courage to open up to your husband about your fears and desires. Simply

Where did all your cash go? You just went to the ATM - but your wallet's empty again. A recent survey by VISA found that almost half of all Americans lose track of an average of $45 a week. Guess that dollar here and there really does add up! Farnoosh Torabi, author of You're So Money, offers tips to stop cash from dripping out of your wallet.

Write it down. Keep a record of every purchase you make - down to quarters for parking meters - for a week. Seeing just how much those afternoon vending-machine raids are costing you will clue you in to your total spending picture.

Make a shopping list. Even if you're going to the grocery store for only a few items, sticking to your list is a simple way to avoid pricey impulse purchases.

Pay your own way. Treating your friends to coffee or lunch always feels great. But don't give till it hurts - pick up the check once in a while, not once a week.

Avoid ATM surcharges. If you use an ATM that's out of your network, most banks will charge you about

It's all well and good for financial experts to tout the wealth-building benefits of investing. But what if you don't have a hunk of cash to invest with? Surprise: You don't actually need a lot of money to save for the future; you just need to know how to get started. Here, what you should know about putting whatever money you have to work for you.

Bad with Money? Try this.

Your Bottom Line
Your first step on the investment path should be a retirement account, such as a 401(k) or IRA. Many employers offer 401(k)s, which allow you to automatically deduct money (pretax) from your paycheck to invest in the stock market. If your job doesn't offer a 401(k), open an IRA through a brokerage such as Fidelity Investments or Charles Schwab.
How much you need: You can put as little as 1 percent of your salary in a 401(k), but most financial experts recommend that you contribute at least 10 percent. Minimum investments for IRAs range from $200 to $2,000, but some firms, such as TIAA-CREF, don't

Neurosurgery nurse Ashley Walling was exhausted and overwhelmed after giving birth to her son, Connor, with Down syndrome. Already mom to daughter Caroline, she couldn't image returning to work while also managing life at home, especially since her husband is a fireman with 24-hour shifts.

By working out a schedule with her husband, leaning on her sister and mom for sporadic help, and adjusting her work days with her employer, Ashley was able to find a way to make it all work. It also turned out that getting back to work was just the therapy she needed. Here are 5 ways she made it work.

1. I get support from others.
I was scared to go to a support group after Connor was born. I didn't know what to expect. But it was a relief to find other moms of kids with Down syndrome who knew what I was going through; they helped take away my fear. Now, with the stress of Connor mainstreaming into a regular kindergarten, I'll have these moms to lean on again.

4 Keys to Building a Happy Family

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