Marriage and family therapist Carin Goldstein promises on her blog, Be the Smart Wife, to teach you "how to take care of yourself and your marriage without killing your husband." Read on for her suggestions on how to strengthen your marriage.
1. When it comes to conflict, it's not about winning. If your goal is to win, you will lose. Instead, take the time to truly understand your partner's perspective rather than dismiss it.
2. Happy couples are not perfect couples -- there's no such thing. Instead, accept each other's differences, and have compassion for one another.
3. Take the time to be present with your partner and really listen to him or her with attention. Turn off the TV, the blackberry, the iPad, the computer and give your marriage the attention in not only deserves, but needs.
4. Your partner's job is not to "rescue" you from your old childhoodRead More »from 4 Secrets to a Better Relationship