It's not your imagination that things between you and your guy have felt a little frosty these last few weeks. Couples therapists agree that this season is a prime time for spats. "The stress of the holidays, including travel, dealing with extended family members, and not having a daily structure can bubble over into January," says Susan Gadoua, LCSW, a marriage therapist and author of The New I Do: Reshaping Marriage for Cynics, Commitmentphobes and Connubial DIYers. That coupled with bad weather that leaves you cooped up with hard-to-implement New Year's resolutions (gym every day! kale every night!) can put you in a less-than-loving mood. Luckily, there are ways to avoid the chill and keep you warm and fuzzy toward your husband.
1. Acknowledge the issue.
Awareness is the first step, says Bob Taibbi, LCSW, a