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By Charlotte Hilton Anderson, REDBOOK

Stay-at-home moms vs. work-outside-the-home moms: Who is the better mom? In the past it's been the worst catfight the Internet has known. But ladies, it may finally be time to lay down your weapons because the research has spoken and there's one thing we all have in common. After taking a survey of 1,600 women, University of Washington researchers have news for us: We're all depressed. Um, yay?

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It turns out that as far as our mental health is concerned, our happiness is less dependent on where we choose to do the bulk of our work and more about what our expectations are of our work-life balance-specifically how much help we can expect from our significant others.

Says study author Katrina Leupp, "The findings really point to the mismatch between women's expectations about their ability to balance work and family. Women still do the bulk of household labor and child care, even when they're

By Farnoosh Torabi, REDBOOK

Granted, some of these tricks are a tad out there. But what's really insane is the fact that 60 percent of Americans don't have emergency savings. So try what works for money experts and smarty-pants REDBOOK readers!

1. CHARGE IT TO DISNEY
There's just no avoiding it: Kids always ask for candy in the checkout line. "Instead of caving, say, 'How about you guys wait 15 minutes until we get home for a snack, and that $3 will go in our Disney savings jar?' Works every time," says Beth Engelman of mommyonashoestring.com.

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2. PAY YOURSELF EVERY TIME YOU DO LAUNDRY
Pretend your laundry room is coin-operated: Keep a can by the washer and dryer and "charge" yourself $2 (a standard laundromat fee) every time you do a load. When the can fills up with singles, bank it. If an appliance breaks unexpectedly, use this stash to help shoulder the cost.

3. MASTER THE GROCERY CHECKOUT
"At the

By Lisa Costantini, REDBOOK

These expert shopping tips will make it easy to save thousands of dollars on everything from groceries to household items. Just follow these rules:

TLC's jaw-dropping reality show Extreme Couponing proves that you almost never have to pay full price. But who wants to spend six hours a day hunting for deals, or lug around a fat binder stuffed with coupons? Jamie Chase, author of The Lazy Couponer, told us how to save more than $25,000 annually on groceries and other household items in a fraction of the time. "I once spent 45 minutes clipping and yielded $400 worth of free stuff," she says. Do it her way:

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Make your shopping list a few minutes before you walk out the door. Then surf online coupon databases such as dealseekingmom.com and hotcouponworld.com - both sites will tell you where to find printable coupons for the items you need.

Pile on the savings. Unless your coupon says "cannot be combined

By Charlotte Hilton Andersen, REDBOOK

The camping trips have finished, and the workbooks have been completed. Drama camp is kaput, and museum ennui has set in for the kids and adults alike. All of my beginning-of-summer enthusiasm has boiled off, leaving me with four very irritable children who are losing IQ points every second. And school is still nearly a month away. (Okay, so it's only two weeks off, but if my kids are entitled to hyperbole-"All we ever do are chores! You just had us so we'd be your slaves!"-then I am too, by golly.)

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For many families, the school year has already started. Whether you wept or cheered at the bus stop that first day, that band-aid has already been ripped off by now. Living in the land of No-School-Before-Labor-Day, I almost want to punch my friends in other states when they call me at 10 o'clock in the morning just because they can without anyone repeating every word they say in a snotty voice.

By Amanda Lynne Freeman, REDBOOK

Amanda Lynne Freeman's guy was a very busy bee before they met - his exploits literally filled a book. Could he truly have let go of his past and become a one-woman guy?

For two nights in 2008, I contemplated stabbing my boyfriend with a tiny needle while he slept, extracting blood, and sending it away to be tested for HIV. I'd purchased the test kit already; it was stashed in the closet. Trey was a deep and dedicated sleeper-he even wore a lavender sleeping mask-so I figured I could get away with it.

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Why would I plot to prick him? I knew far too much about his sexual history. He'd detailed it all on his blog, which I'd started reading soon after our first date, and in books (yes, plural). About six months into our relationship, his latest book came out. He asked me not to read it, but, needless to say, I downloaded an electronic copy as soon as I could, and discovered that aside from having

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By Kayleigh Donahue, REDBOOK

Hours of primping (and an army of primpers) went into these celebrity beauty looks. But honestly, each boils down to one key, supereasy tip. Here's how to do them in no time, with your own two hands.

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By Nicole Yorio, REDBOOK

Mornings are never easy, especially when a new school year begins. Here's how to give kids a morning routine and get them out the door on the right foot.

1. Prepare for re-entry.
Have the kids go to bed and wake up earlier for the two weeks before school starts, says Marcella Moran, an organizing expert in Hartsdale, NY. Get them in the habit of laying out their next-day outfits, and pack their lunches the night before. It's the number-one way to chill out family mornings, according to Moran.

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2. Rinse, eat, repeat.
Set a morning schedule for your kids: Hit the bathroom, get dressed, then eat breakfast, suggests Laurie Zelinger, Ph.D., a child psychologist in Cedarhurst, NY: "It gives children a sense of structure and teaches organizational skills."

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3. Reserve some Q.T.
"Get up 20 minutes before your kids so you're