By Charlotte Hilton Andersen, REDBOOK
Autism and depression - could there be two more gut-wrenching, heart-breaking and sensitive topics? And yet in a strange alignment of research and Life's Hardest Moments, a new study came out this week showing a possible link between incidence of autism and the mother's use of anti-depressants at any time up to a year before the child's birth. The report, published in The Archives of General Psychiatry, says, "results indicated a doubling in risk of autism if the mother filled a prescription for antidepressants at any point in the year before delivery. The risk tripled if she filled the prescription during the first trimester of pregnancy."
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As a woman who is currently on anti-depressants and was on them during two of my five pregnancies, this shook me to the core. But as I sat with this for a couple of days and let my emotions run the gamut from shame, fear, anger and defensiveness to acceptance, it occurred to
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- Redbook | Parenting – Fri, Jul 8, 2011 5:08 PM EDT
By Charlotte Hilton Andersen, REDBOOKRead More »from Anti-Depressant Use During Pregnancy Linked to Autism: What's a Mom to Do?
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by Jessica Smith, REDBOOK
OK, so you already know that diet pills aren't the healthiest way to lose weight, but what's the real harm in using them? They aren't that bad, are they?
While the side effects are written (in small print) on the label, have you ever really considered what those diet pills could do to your body? We asked Dr. Jaime Schehr, a naturopathic doctor and registered dietitian in New York City, to tell us the five most dangerous diet pill side effects, and how they can really be damaging to your health:
1) Liver damage and/or toxicity This is a very serious possible side effect of some diet pills. "The liver is the organ responsible for clearing or eliminating most chemicals (drugs) from the body. When the liver is damaged it is not able to perform its function of chemical clearance as efficiently, leaving potentially dangerous chemicals circulating in the body," says Dr. Schehr.
Why it's so dangerous: it could be irreversible. While your liver could return to
- Redbook | Parenting – Thu, Jul 7, 2011 4:29 PM EDT
By Britt Reints, REDBOOKRead More »from Genius Parenting Trick: Why I Let My Husband Play Bad Cop
On June 1, 2011, my family of four-myself, my husband, my 11-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter-moved out of our home in the Orlando suburbs and into a 24-foot RV. Our plan is to travel around the United States for a year, living on a small bit of savings and my income as a freelance writer and professional blogger. We decided to take this trip for many reasons. We wanted to spend more time together and learn more about what really matters to us as a family and as individuals. Most importantly, we wanted our children to have a broad understanding of what it means to be American. There are a lot of people from a lot of different places who use the term American to describe themselves, and I think it will make our children better citizens to be able to see that diversity and shared patriotism firsthand.
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My family pulled into Myrtle Beach, South Carolina and was instantly mesmerized by the billboards and flashing
- Redbook | Parenting – Wed, Jul 6, 2011 7:53 PM EDT
By Charlotte Hilton Andersen, REDBOOK
It's not the defense team's job to prove innocence. Nor is it the job of the accused to come up with a believable alternate story. I wasn't in the jury yesterday that found Casey Anthony not guilty of killing her 3-year-old daughter Caylee and so I didn't hear all the evidence. I know all this and yet ever since yesterday I've been holding all my kids a little bit tighter.
A baby died. In an apparently horrific manner. And nobody knows how or why. (Or if they do know they're not saying until they get that million dollar advance for their "memoirs".) Sometimes not knowing how a child died is worse than knowing her mother killed her.
Every time a child is killed and especially when the cases are as high profile as this one has been, my level of fear and mother paranoia goes up another couple of notches. (Which is saying a lot since I'm already at the high end of the anxietyRead More »from Does the Casey Anthony 'Not Guilty' Verdict Make You Feel Less Safe as a Mom?
By Nicole Yorio, REDBOOKRead More »from 5 Ways to Find Happiness
Here are five easy steps to boost your mood and be at your happiest.
1. Short-circuit the negative. Every time you think a negative thought, replace it with a positive one. Instead of fuming if a car cuts you off, think, This is a reminder for me to drive safely. You can also stave off dark thoughts by inserting sunny ones into your daily routine: Recite a mantra like "Life is good" whenever something goes right.
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2. Do a joy inventory. Each night, jot down or make a mental list of three things, big or small, that brought a smile to your face that day (you got a seat on the bus; your boss loved your proposal). This happy list will keep your optimism soaring. The more you look out for life's little joys, the more of them you'll find.
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3. Inspire others to smile. Compliment the checkout clerk at the grocery store or help a sick friend. Making someone else feel good has a boomerang
By REDBOOKRead More »from 4 Easy Ways to Live Healthy in July
Get healthy this month by eating more eggs, reassessing portion sizes in your cookbooks, and more!
1. Embrace the egg. Eggs have gotten a bum health rap over the years, but they're not as rotten as you think. The American Dietetic Association says that healthy folks can have them every day without raising their cholesterol levels-and researchers in Canada believe that eating eggs might help reduce high blood pressure. How? They've found that proteins called peptides-which exist in all eggs but are most plentiful in hard-boiled and fried eggs-seem to work the way some blood-pressure drugs do. So get cracking with this delicious deviled-egg recipe.
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2. Say bye-bye to UTIs. As the mercury rises, so do hemlines, gas prices-and your chances of getting a urinary tract infection. UTIs become up to 17 percent more common for every 10-degree increase in temperature, a recent Oregon State University study shows. Beat the odds by drinking four
By Nell Casey, REDBOOKRead More »from 4 tips to help you launch your business
Starting your own business can be a little intimidating-to say the least. Here are some tips to make sure your entrepreneurial debut is a success.
1. Get to know your market: Surf the Web to research competitors and find out what they charge for their products or services. "Talk to your ideal core audience," suggests Ellen Parlapiano, cofounder of mompreneursonline.com. "Find out if they're interested in your product and what they'd pay for it."
2. Plan for your success: "To get financing from investors or a bank, you'll need to write a business plan-or at the very least, come up with a mission statement and objectives," Parlapiano says. For guidance on writing a business plan and more check out business.gov.
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3. Play by the rules: Investigate whether or not you'll need special certification or permits for your venture. If you're dealing with cosmetics, for example, Parlapiano says, you'll need a Board of
- Redbook | Love + Sex – Tue, Jul 5, 2011 7:59 PM EDT
By Aaron Traister, REDBOOK
DEAR WHYS GUY:
Why do men never appear to be listening to you, but then when you ask them what you just said, they can repeat back a whole bunch of stuff verbatim?
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DEAR REDBOOK READER:
Have you ever seen The Wire? In order to listen in on the drug dealers' conversations, the cops have a little box on the phone-tap marked "pertinent." If it's not pertinent, they don't listen in, and it can't be recorded or used later in the prosecution of the case. I have a little box like that in my head. Karel has a lot of stuff that she thinks is important, but that little box in my head lets me know when it's time to pay attention and record information that may be needed later and when it's time to tune out. But just like the cops on The Wire, I don't want to tip my hand and let Karel (who is like the drug dealers in this scenario) know what is being listened to or recorded for later use, so I keep the sameRead More »from Dear Whys Guy: "Why Does My Guy Never Seem to Listen to Me?"
- Redbook | Love + Sex – Tue, Jul 5, 2011 7:40 PM EDT
By Aaron Traister, REDBOOKRead More »from Dear Whys Guy: "What Do Guys Really Think About Maxi Dresses and Rompers?"
DEAR WHYS GUY:
What's your take on the maxi dress trend sweeping the country? Hot or not?
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DEAR REDBOOK READER:
I had no idea what these things were, so I asked Karel. According to Karel, a maxi dress is the type of long patterned dress that she wears (and she is quick to point out that she's been wearing them for several years-I can back up that claim). I've been calling them Mrs. Roper dresses. Actually, I love Karel's Mrs. Roper dresses-they're casual and form fitting, and, along with gas prices, crumbling infrastructure and high unemployment, they make me feel like I'm back in the '70s, which I firmly believe is the decade I was supposed to live in.
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So my take on "maxi dresses" is a positive one (fine: hot). Karel can slip one on and sashay around the house while I wear my throwback Eagles t-shirt, questionably tight Levis and drink Yuengling from a can while we
By Heather Cocks, REDBOOK
The best moment of any trip with the boys is that first night when they are passed out at the hotel and my husband and I crawl into bed and say, "WE MADE IT!" It's how I imagine a football team feels: You game-plan all week, you finally take the field, you scale obstacles to eke out a victory, and then you revel in it while icing your creaky joints. Traveling with one toddler is hardly a picnic; with two, and all the associated baggage, it's like our faces freeze into those famous comedy-tragedy masks. Here are 10 ways to manage:
1. Wheels: The boys would always rather walk, but because their two-second attention spans make it impossible to get anywhere fast-much less in a crowd-turning the airport into a fun ride is the only option. These gizmos strap to your car seat so you can roll your toddler through the airport. Plus, everyone looks at you like you're some kind of genius, which is fun for the ego.
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2. NewRead More »from 10 Ways to Manage Traveling with Toddlers