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Some clothing is girl hot. Some is guy hot. Then there are these five pieces that will turn everyone's head.

1. A tight turtleneck in a neutral shade
We'd like to once and for all dispel the myth that turtlenecks are frumpy and unflattering. If you stick to greys, tans, and browns and choose a cut that hugs your curves, you'll scream sexy - not schoolmarmish.

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2. A sweater with elbow patches
Looking for a way to stand out from the herds of cardigan-wearing women this autumn? Buy one with embellished elbows and accessorize it with items that complement the color of those patches.

Related: The 8 Best Coats for Fall

3. A motorcycle jacket.
This is the perfect autumn outerwear because it can double as a (work-appropriate) blazer, as Michelle mentions, and catches the attention of badboys. (They don't have to know you drive a Prius - not a bike - to work.)

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4. Riding boots

Perfect for those days when you just

Women are more stressed than ever about work, money, and guys, so we got advice on how to cope.

Those first few years out of college and/or away from home are marked by confusion over what you're "supposed" to do next. So we got expert advice about how to assuage these increasingly common anxieties...and how to start making headway in three fear-inducing areas.

FUTURE FREAK-OUT 1
"I have no idea what I want to do for a living."
It's rare for someone's first field to be the same one they retire from, so don't feel like being hired is a lifetime commitment. If you hate it, consider it a networking experience, then use what you've learned to choose something else. Just don't write anything off because it's not your total dream setup - everyone does grunt work as they work their way up the ladder.

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FUTURE FREAK-OUT 2
"I'll never make enough money!"
When college loans, credit-card debt, living costs, and mini-incomes mean you can't even spring for

You want to be responsible with your dough, but a girl's gotta live a little! Jean Chatzky, author of Make Money, Not Excuses, tells how to lead a luxe life - on a budget.

Save on Essentials Like...

...Credit cards. Right now, you can get rates as low as zero percent for a 6-to 12-month introductory period. That's enough to make a serious dent in your debt.

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...Your car. Lower the rate on your loan by refinancing - you'll save up to $30 a month. Go to bankrate.com to find the best deals on used-car loans - and then just pick up the phone.

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...Gas. Find the cheapest gallons in your hood at gaspricewatch.com.

Live Luxe for Less by...

...Getting a quick and effective massage. For about $10, you can get an amazing foot and leg massage at pretty much every nail salon these days. You don't even have to get your nails done. Oh, and at day spas, mani-pedis are often cheapest on Mondays, Tuesdays,

Think you've got a genius dress-up idea for this October 31st? Stop a minute and reevaluate. It could be a
recipe for disaster.

1. One of those full-body, painted-on costumes. Someone spills a cocktail and you could have a major wardrobe malfunction.

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2. The Snuggie. Sure, you'd be warm and cozy all night, but there's no way you're getting any action in that thing. Unless your guy is part of the outfit and you both go as the Snuggie Sutra. Good luck practicing "The Manket" in public.

Related: 5 Very Naughty Halloween Costumes

3. Any type of Lycra catsuit. Not only is peeing a challenge, you'll also have perpetual camel toe.

Related: 10 Awesome Halloween Costumes to Wear This Year

4. Elin Nordegren. The blonde wig and golf club is bound to be plentiful in costume shops this year, but please resist the urge to keep this story going.

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While we'll always prefer clever, funny, and celebrity-inspired costumes over revealing outfits, we have to admit that Victoria's Secret's Halloween get-ups caught our eye. We think they're better suited for dress up in the bedroom with your guy, but we have a feeling lots of ladies will be sporting something from VS's first line of costumes, called "Naughty Little Fantasies" this Halloween.

Sexy Little Bride, $198

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Sexy Little Kitty, $148






















Sexy Little Valentine, $68

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Sexy Little Nurse, $68























Sexy Little Sailor, $68






















Would you wear any of these out on Halloween? What about for your guy in private? Which is your favorite?

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The next time your friend is tempted to post yet another photo about how cute she and her boyfriend look in matching polos, she should think twice. Ditto for sharing what she had for lunch. Every. Single. Day.

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A study by the Business School at the University of Colorado Denver found that the #1 reason people get unfriended is "frequent, unimportant posts."

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Other reasons the researchers found for terminating Fbook friendships included posting about controversial topics like religion and politics and making crude and racist comments in your status updates.

Related: 5 Annoying Things Guys Do On Facebook

Do you agree with the research? Have you ever unfriended someone for any of the reasons above? Share your stories in the comments below!

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There are a lot of reasons why certain cities might have higher divorce rates than others: Maybe it's because Larry King lives there. Or perhaps that town doesn't sell Cosmo so all the women missed out on this article.

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Well, whatever the reason, there are more split-up couples in these towns than anywhere else:

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Santa Fe, New Mexico with 16.4 percent of the population divorced

Panama City, Florida, 15.5 percent

Medford, Oregon, 15.1 percent

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And the three places where the most marriages fell apart last year:

Florence, Alabama

Grand Junction, Colorado

Charleston, West Virginia

Do you live in any of these cities?

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Become

The secret to stashing dough is simple: Spend less. But what fun is that? A lot, actually, if you cash in on these effortless tips.

Save $14: Take a "vacation" from Netflix, and borrow DVDs from pals for nada.


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Save $21 to $31: Lots of brand-name birth-control pills have generic versions that are way cheaper. Ask your gyno if your designer Rx has a generic twin.

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Save $40: Drinking dinner? Bad idea. Getting a free meal while you drink? Awesome. Many bars now serve apps on the house to lure in crowds.

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Save $15 to $20: Little-known fact: The price of your cut includes a fee for drying. So if you ask to leave it wet, your stylist will usually bump down the cost.

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Save $10: Unlock your iTunes library - go to preferences and click share - and have friends and