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We know better than to take dating advice from Hollywood, but lately a string of movies about leading ladies falling for not-so-hot guys has gotten our attention. Think Knocked Up or practically anything starring Michael Cera. The latest film following this trend, aptly titled She's Out of My League is in on the joke.

In it, the sweet but totally average and dorky Kirk, is ridiculed by his friends for being a "Moodle," the type of guy girls want to hang out and cuddle with, but don't date or have sex with. These are the type of guys you should never date! But it turns out that this slightly geeky breed of men might make the best boyfriends. Of course, if the geek you have your eye on is the shy type you may have to make the first move and ask him out.

1. He's capable of memorizing every line of Star Wars and Lord of the Rings so he shouldn't have trouble remembering your birthday and favorite kind of flowers. Or the other important dates men forget.

2. Sure, he may

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You went online because there's a huge pool of guys to date, and hooking one is supposed to be easy. So how come you're only meeting losers, or worse, not getting any attention at all? It's not you, it's your profile. No, really. According to Internet dating experts, many women are guilty of making these five mistakes online. But don't worry, there's no way your profile is as bad as these are. With a few tweaks and maybe a little white lie or two, your inbox will soon be stuffed with messages from guys dying to meet you.

Plus, here's how to spot a great guy from his profile.

Mistake #1: You Don't Self-Promote

You might be hesitant to really play up your assets because you worry it will make you seem cocky or self-involved. But leaving out interesting info, like how you're awesome at snowboarding or speak two languages, results in a lackluster first impression.

The snag-him secret: Enlist a close friend to help you create your profile. She'll feel more comfortable

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Knowing that it's almost time to shop for a new bikini is probably all the motivation you need to hit the gym, but bathing suit season scare isn't enough for guys. (We blame board shorts.) If you're ready to jump-start your diet, try this way to drop 5 pounds in just a week. But you don't want to flat-out tell your guy he's getting heavy - it'll just kill his self-confidence and make you look like a nag. Instead, the trick is to subtly nudge him in the right direction. And hey, if all else fails, how's this for inspiration? Losing a little weight stimulates hormones and makes guys crave sex even more. Since he'll be hornier and you'll be more attracted to his leaner bod, your sex life will be smoking hot by Memorial Day. Get motivated by reading the 10 best weight loss tips we've ever come across.

1. Sweat on Date Night

For most couples in LTRs, dinner and the DVR is a pretty accurate description of quality twosome time. But planning some dates that don't involve the couch will

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You'd leave if you could...but there's nothing else in sight. So turn your job-from-hell into a happier situation with these tips.

1. Improve Your Workspace

Photos and plants can work wonders, but there's an even better way to infuse new life into a work area. "Get control of clutter," advises Jeffrey McGrew, co-owner of sustainable interior-design firm Because We Can. "Clear off the junk from your desk and you'll feel less stressed." Next, make sure your job doesn't literally make you sick, by avoiding ailments like carpal-tunnel syndrome. Position your computer monitor a couple feet away at eye level, make sure there's no glare, and sit up straight with your feet flat on the floor. While you're in makeover mode, update your work wardrobe to get you an extra confidence boost.

2. Maximize Your Downtime

Step away from the computer. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends taking a break from your screen every half an hour to prevent repetitive motion

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One of the best parts of attending the Oscars (in addition to rubbing shoulders with guys like Taylor Lautner and Javier Bardem, of course) has to be the fact that you can borrow millions of dollars worth of jewelry. It's common for A-listers-or more likely, their stylists-to raid top jewelers for price-tag-free Oscar accessories.

After your check out the dresses everyone is talking about and see the ten hottest hairstyles, take a look at who sported the most head-turning bracelets, earrings, necklaces, and rings. And vote in our Oscar Beauty Awards!

Commence the diamond envy...

Zoe Saldana's amethyst ring from Lorraine Schwartz matched her gown perfectly.

Penélope Cruz may not have wowed critics with her dress, but we fully approve of her bracelets and major ring.

Rachel McAdams wore stunning Lorraine Schwartz chandelier earrings.

Kate Winslet's Tiffany pendant is 19 carats and worth $165,000, according to some reports.

Carey Mulligan's

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Whether you're primping for your own Oscar party or just want to glam up, find out how to get some of the most all these gorgeous lip, cheek, and eye effects from the makeup artists who created them. Plus, gear up for this year's Academy Awards by checking out the best and worst gowns ever seen on the red carpet.

Natalie Portman: Pink Cheeks and Lavender Lids

Makeup artist Jeannine Lobell used Natalie Portman's orchid Rodarte dress as inspiration for this makeup effect. To get Natalie's deep purple smoky eyes use a pale pink shadow as a base and dark plum shadow in the crerases. Lobell recommends Chanel Silky Eye Shadow Duo in Orient Express. Finish off the eyes with lots of black liner and mascara. Next, blend a bright pink blush high on your cheekbones and swipe on a pale lavender lip gloss like Chanel Glossimer in Galactic. For a sexy, bronze sheen, apply bronzer to your arms, shoulders, and décolleté- and make sure your cleavage looks as sexy as possible.

Jennifer

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With the 82nd annual Academy Awards coming up, we've rounded up some of the most buzzed-about hits and misses in red carpet history. Let's see if the starlets who walk the carpet this year will keep these looks in mind in terms of what to aim for - and what to steer wayyy clear of. Let's none of these actresses give their stylist the day off this year.

Worst Dressed: Demi Moore in her own design, 1989

Someone should either find the other half of her skirt or point her in the direction of the nearest cycling club. Thankfully, Demi left her subsequent wardrobe choices to the pros.

Best Dressed: Angelina Jolie, 2004

Angie's one of very few people who can rock this material and this color - both being mercilessly unforgiving. But the dress drapes on her curves and shows off her assets in all the right ways. No surprise, she also had one of the best hairstyles at last year's Oscars.

Worst Dressed: Bjork, 2001

Between the nude-colored bodysuit, the

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It's no secret that guys aren't the best at articulating what they're thinking. Combine that with the fact that they'd rather bend the truth a little than risk letting you down and you're left with a baffling, cryptic code to decipher. We got guys to let us in on what some of their most said phrases really mean. Plus, find out the four things he'll never open up about.

1. He Says: "We should hang out sometime."
He Means: "I'm afraid you'll say 'no' if I ask you out."
Of course, actions speak louder than words. Find out if he's hitting on you by decoding his body language.

2. He Says: "I'll call you later."
He Means: "I may or may not call you at some point between now and three months from now."

3. He Says: "My ex is crazy."
He Means: "I messed her up, and she got upset."
When you talk about your ex, here's how to bend the truth so you don't bruise his ego.

4. He Says: "That guy seems like a good friend of yours."
He Means: "Was there ever a thing between you?"

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