Here's how you meet new people.We know you're already well versed in snagging a guy's attention. You've mastered the coy smile, the eye contact, the flirty texting. But sometimes it's new friends you're in the market for…and that can be way trickier than meeting dudes.
By Molly Triffin
Reese Witherspoon recently confessed on Ellen that she has a girl crush on Kate Middleton, saying, "I would like to hang out. I'm not sure she wants to hang out with me…. Call me. Call me anytime." We get where she's coming from-whether you've moved to a new town, your besties are popping out babies and moving to the 'burbs, or you just want to broaden your social circle, almost all of us go through a time when we're on the prowl for buddies.
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But how, exactly, do you ask out a girl? "Don't fall into the trap of thinking that everyone already has plenty of friends," says Irene S. Levine, PhD, professor of psychology at the NYU School of Medicine and author of Best Friends Forever: Surviving a
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Read More »from 7 Foods that Burn FatThese foods will help you burn fat.With rising temps come rising hemlines, bare shoulders... and eventually, bikini season. Add these metabolism-boosting foods and drinks to your shopping list, and you'll score a leaner and sexier bod.
By Carolyn Kylstra
Chicken Breast
Meet the ultimate wonder food. Chicken is packed with protein, which is essential for maintaining muscle mass-and the more muscle mass you have, the more efficient you are at burning calories. Even better, protein takes more time to digest than carbohydrates, so you'll feel full longer than if you ate the same number of calories in a carb-or fat-heavy meal. An ideal serving: the size of a computer mouse or a deck of cards.
Greek Yogurt
Calcium consumed in tandem with an amino acid found in dairy products has been shown to burn fat. Consider it a fab excuse to add more yogurt, milk, and cheese to your meal plans. What makes Greek yogurt a standout dairy option is that it has more protein that the regular kind-so you boost the fat-burning benefits.
Read More »from Should You Be Friendly with His Ex?Would you talk to his ex?Jessica Biel just announced that she'll be starring in the upcoming film, Alfred Hitchcock and the Making of Psycho, alongside Scarlett Johansson...who reportedly once dated Jessica's now-fiance, Justin Timberlake.
By Korin Miller
Yeah, rubbing elbows with your man's ex can be awkward, but it doesn't have to be, says couples therapist Bethany Marshall, PhD, author of Deal Breakers.
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Facing a similar situation? Marshall recommends being friendly to your guy's ex, and calling out the elephant in the room in a joking way, like, "I heard we have at least one thing in common." An added perk of taking that approach: It shows you're confident (naturally) and not threatened by her past relationship with your guy.
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If you're going to be seeing your guy's ex a lot-maybe you're working together like Scarlett and Jessica, or she just befriended some of your friends-Marshall stresses that it's important to try toThe Hottest Nail Polishes to Wear This Spring
By Cosmopolitan.com | Beauty on Shine – Tue, Mar 20, 2012 5:30 PM EDTWe called up Deborah Lippmann, celebrity manicurist and founder of her namesake nail, hand, and foot care company, to see what polish you should be topping your tips with this season. (Not to mention the best place to wear them.)
Read More »from The Hottest Nail Polishes to Wear This Spring
By Carly CardellinoLovely Lavender
"Lilac hues are a great alternative to nudes," says Lippmann. "This shade is perfect for an interview because it's understated, yet allows you to still wear a bit of color."
Zoya Nail Polish in Kendal, $8, zoya.com.Special Effects
"What's fun about a layering a clear, yet glittery polish over any hue is that it can really change up your manicure in seconds," explains Lippmann. She suggests painting on a top coat like this before heading out to happy hour.
China Glaze Capitol Colours Nail Lacquer in Luxe and Lush, $5.99, sallybeauty.com.Pure Magic
These magnetic polishes are mind-blowingly cool because they're blended with metallic particles that move when exposed to the magnetic-filled cap. Translation: You'll either end up with a super-subtle wave design onWanna know if he's really into you? Take a look at these celeb power couples. Body language experts say if your man is mirroring any of these dudes, it's a good sign.
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Read More »from What His Body Language RevealsWhy You Shouldn't Get Back with Your Ex
By Cosmopolitan.com | Love + Sex – Fri, Mar 16, 2012 6:10 PM EDT
Read More »from Why You Shouldn't Get Back with Your ExWhy you shouldn't get back with your ex...There's something about having an amicable relationship with an ex that can make him so damn hard to shake. Maybe he promises he'll change, or you notice his new haircut kinda makes him look like Ryan Reynolds. Whatever it is, going back to the same dude can be awesome…but it can also lock you into an on-again, off-again relationship.
By Korin Miller
According to new research, that's not really a great thing. Scientists from Kansas State University discovered that dating (and re-dating) an ex is common-nearly 40 percent of people in college are doing it. But it can have lasting effects on your long-term happiness.
Researchers discovered that dating the same guy again increases your risk of having relationship issues in the future, especially if you end up marrying him. They found that people who got hitched after having an on-again, off-again relationship were more likely to have a lower quality of marriage than people who didn't break up beforehand.
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Read More »from 20 Famous and Sexy Irish MenHow to Get the Girl-Next-Door Look
By Cosmopolitan.com | Beauty on Shine – Wed, Mar 14, 2012 6:04 PM EDT
Read More »from How to Get the Girl-Next-Door LookJennifer LawrenceTouch-me hair, gorgeous skin, pink lips...guys can't get enough of the all-natural look. Score the style with these easy beauty moves.
By Korin Miller
The release of The Hunger Games movie is just around the corner, and we keep seeing pics of its star, Jennifer Lawrence, popping up lately. With her bright skin and flowy hair, she's the ultimate in girl-next-door sexy, which, coincidentally, guys are obsessed with. Copy Jennifer's all-American glow with these tricks.
Touchable Skin
Regular facials are a great way to scrub off grody dead winter skin, but, really-who can afford them? That's why we love Kate Sommerville's exfoliating treatment. Just rub a little dab into your skin when y ou wash your face, let it sit for two minutes, and rinse it off. The scrub leaves your face feeling super-smooth with a pretty glow.
Kate Sommerville ExfoliKate Gentle, $19 for .5 oz
Kissable Lips
Just like your face looks amazing after you get rid of dead skin, your lips need a pick-me-up, too. And5 Dating Mistakes You Don’t Realize You’re Making
By Cosmopolitan.com | Love + Sex – Tue, Mar 13, 2012 6:06 PM EDT
Read More »from 5 Dating Mistakes You Don’t Realize You’re MakingDon't make these dating mistakesMost women are great at knowing the big things that turn guys off, like telling a man Zach Galifianakis dresses better than he does, or insisting he meet your best friends after one date. But, according to the guys over at the hilarious site 100RedFlags.com, there are tiny traits dudes home in on that they don't dig in an S.O. 100 Red Flags co-creator Bill Nichols gives us the low-down.
The Red Flag: You wear smoky eyes on a first date
What Men See: We worry that you're high-maintenance, since that eye makeup looks like it took a while to do. Plus, that eye shadow could get on our pillow. And we don't wash our sheets.
Your Move: Skip the smoky eyes for the first few dates. Try toning it down a bit and distract us with one of those cleavage necklaces. It's pure and simple science that our eyes cannot escape the magnetic pull of a nice rack.
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The Red Flag: You've gone on three dates, and we still haven't gotten to first base.
What Men See: We're notHow to Maintain Your Red Hair Color
By Cosmopolitan.com | Beauty on Shine – Tue, Mar 13, 2012 11:37 AM EDT
Read More »from How to Maintain Your Red Hair ColorTips on how to maintain your red locks.Crushing on Christina Hendricks's crimson strands or caught the red-hair bug after spotting Lindsay Lohan's new look? Red has proven itself to be the hottest hair color in Hollywood, but it's also the hardest to maintain. We got the scoop on how to keep your dyed fiery strands looking radiant longer.
By Carly Cardellino
Suds Up Safely
The cardinal post-coloring rule: "Wait at least two days to wash your hair," says Elizabeth Hiserodt, senior colorist at John Frieda at Serge Normant Salon in NYC. Washing right away can cause the cuticle (your hair's outermost layer) to lift, allowing the color to seep out.
To maintain the brightness of your Annie-like locks, Hiserodt recommends using a color-treated shampoo and conditioner when you do decide to suds up. "These formulas don't contain harsh sulfates, so they won't strip your strands of its gorgeous hue," she adds.
Try Pravana Color Ensure Shampoo and Conditioner, $15 each, pravana.com.
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