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    • A Crazy-Easy Way to Cut Pounds

      Cut this to lose weight.Cut this to lose weight.Looking to firm up? You already know crash-dieting is bad for your bod (especially your boobs). To gradually get a super-fit bod over time, scientists now swear by a new trick that involves simple math and just a teeny bit of willpower.

      By Korin Miller

      Researchers from the National Institutes of Health discovered that you need to cut just 10 calories a day from your diet for every pound you want to lose over time. So, if you want to drop five pounds, cut 50 calories. That's the equivalent of leaving a small piece of cheese off of your sandwich or having a smaller glass of wine than usual-no biggie, right?

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      Scientists say if you stick with this plan, you'll lose the weight over three years, with most of the lbs dropping off in the first year.

      Related: 5 New Ways to Lose Weight

      Want to firm up faster? To slim down in time for bikini season, you can eat dessert at breakfast or work out with your friends. But dropping a few extra calories out of your

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    • Yet Another Thing Women Do Better Than Men

      Women are better at job interviews than men,Women are better at job interviews than men,It's no secret that women do a lot of things better than men. In fact, science has found at least 10 different things. Oops-make that 11.

      By Korin Miller

      A new study out of the University of Western Ontario found that women are better at handling the stress of a job interview. Researchers found that, while women get more freaked beforehand about interviewing, we do better in the actual event.

      Related: The Interview Trap Women Fall Into

      Here's what went down: Scientists told college students they were going to be doing job interviews and tracked their behavior leading up to the big moment.

      Women talked to friends and family about their anxiety and practiced mock interviews with their friends. Guys watched TV and pretended they didn't care about the interview, which naturally made them bomb in the moment compared to the women.

      Related: Hilarious Job Interview Screw-Ups

      Okay, there are three things you can learn from this. One, we get more stressed about job stuff, so it's important

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    • 3 Ways to Deal with a Hater

      Kate UptonYouTube star Kate Upton just landed on the cover of Sports Illustrated's annual swimsuit issue…and she's already getting trashed by some modeling industry people. One casting agent even told the New York Times that Kate's look was "too obvious" with her "too-blond hair and that kind of face that anyone with enough money can go out and buy." Um…ouch.

      By Korin Miller

      Like Kate, you've probably run into criticism about your work at some point (although, for your sake, we hope it wasn't that harsh). And whether it comes from a coworker, your boss, or a total stranger, it hurts. We tracked down experts for their tips on how to deal when, like Kate, you get served some serious haterade.

      Get Pissed
      It's normal to get upset when someone says something that's less than positive about you-take a few moments or even a few weeks to process it. "It's fine to be emotional about it," says executive and life coach Meredith Haberfeld, cofounder of the Institute For Coaching. Of course, if your

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    • Why Date Night is so Important

      Go on a fun date.Between putting in long hours at work and catching up with friends, it can be hard to find solid quality time with your guy.

      By Korin Miller

      But keep this in mind next time you're tempted to do a double-date to squeeze in everyone at once instead of going solo with your man: New research has found that couples who spend a good chunk time alone together once a week are three times more likely to say that they're "very happy" in their relationship.

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      For their study, researchers from the University of Virginia's National Marriage Project surveyed 1,600 couples and asked them about everything from relationship satisfaction to sex.

      Related: The Biggest Relationship Sins Guys Commit


      They discovered that couples who spend at least one night a week alone together say they're more committed to their relationship than those who don't hang out together as much. Oh, and couples who do those date nights are more than three times more likely to say that

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    • Why You Should Eat Dessert for Breakfast

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      If you're looking to firm up, skipping dessert is probably on your must-do list along with regularly hitting the gym. But new research found the sweet stuff can actually help you get fit.

      By Korin Miller

      According to a study from Tel Aviv University, eating dessert as part of a 600-calorie breakfast that includes proteins and carbs can help people lose weight-and keep it off. And yup, we're totally talking about ending breakfast with a piece of chocolate.

      Related: 5 New Ways to Lose Weight

      Over the course of a 32-week study, scientists found that people who had dessert-cookies, cake, or chocolate-with their breakfast lost an average of 40 pounds more than people who avoided sweets…and they didn't gain the weight back.

      Here's why they say it works: In the a.m., your body's metabolism is the most active. At this time, we're better able to burn off the calories during the day as opposed to, say, having some ice cream after dinner when your metabolism is slowing down to prepare for

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    • Valentine’s Day Gifts Under $20 for Guys and Girls

      Make sure you get each other the right Valentine's Day gifts.Make sure you get each other the right Valentine's Day gifts.Who says being a cheap date is a bad thing? Check out this selection of cute, funny, and romantic V-Day gifts for less than $20!

      By Leonora Epstein

      FOR HIM: Vintage Record Do some research to find out what your guy's favorite (and potentially corny) band was when he was a teenager. You're sure to find a copy for about $15 on eBay.com.

      FOR HER: Eccolo Red Heart Journal This girly notebook is sure to elicit an "awww!" from her. Of course, then you have to resign yourself to the fact that she'll likely use it to write mushy things about you. Available for $9.99 at bedbathandbeyond.com.

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      FOR HIM: Lexon Business Card Case A supersleek card case will add to his professional credibility (or at least make him feel more important). Available for $16 at greenergrassdesign.com.

      FOR HER: Suck UK USB Mix Tape This USB key puts a modern twist on a classic romantic gift while still keeping it old school. Before you give it to her, load the USB key up with some '80s

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    • 10 Foods that Make You Bloat

      This will make you bloat.This will make you bloat.You already know it's a good idea to stay away from salty potato chips when you want to avoid belly bloat. But a new report found that other seemingly innocent foods are tripping you up.

      By Korin Miller

      According to the Center For Disease Control's list of the top 10 sources of sodium, most of us get too much sodium from…bread and rolls. It's not that they contain more salt than potato chips and junk food-we just eat them more because, until now, we didn't realize they had so much sodium in them.

      Related: 5 New Ways to Lose Weight

      According to the report, these top 10 items make up 44 percent of the sodium we eat every day. Here's the rest of the list:

      1. Bread
      2. Cold cuts and cured meats
      3. Pizza
      4. Poultry
      5. Soups
      6. Fast-food hamburgers and sandwiches
      7. Cheese
      8. Spaghetti and other pasta dishes
      9. Meatloaf and other meat dishes
      10. Snacks-potato chips, pretzels, etc.

      So, if you're planning to slip into a skintight LBD on Saturday, take a pass on having a pizza

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    • 5 Moves to Help Your Guy when He’s Stressed

      Gisele & Tom BradyGisele & Tom BradyIf your guy's a Patriots fan, odds are he's feeling pretty tense that his team didn't win on Sunday. Luckily, experts say you can help mellow him out by pulling these easy moves. Bonus: You'll score serious relationship perks too, since he'll feel closer to you as a result.

      By Kelly Thore

      1. Put out a bowl of chips. Chowing down on crunchy things helps instantly de-stress the brain. That's because the physical effort it takes to chew works some of the tension out of his body-similar to what it'd be like if he were squeezing a stress ball.

      2. Get close, but don't cuddle. When men are anxious they usually prefer space. So, cozying up in his arms will just irritate him. However, research shows that when you're within three feet of him, his body starts producing oxytocin (a love hormone that relaxes him) at a high level. If you're hanging on the couch, get close enough that you're thighs are barely touching but you aren't wrapped in his arms. Or, if you're in bed lay so that you can just

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    • Is Facebook More Irresistible Than Sex?

      What?! Facebook is more desirable than sex?What?! Facebook is more desirable than sex?A while ago, we told you that one in five women believe that Facebook is better than sex. We were stunned by those results and even more shocked to see that a new study validates this.

      By Dara Adeeyo

      For the latest research, scientists in Germany recruited 205 adults and checked in with them seven times a day via a smartphone. When they connected, they asked participants what they were craving at that moment or what they recently had an urge to do. They were then asked if they resisted the urge or gave into it.

      Related: 25 Things You Don't Want to Read About A Guy on Facebook

      Researchers discovered that most people's desires revolved around tech-they wanted to check their phone for new texts or to log onto Facebook to see what their friends were doing. Sleep was also a biggie, but scientists found that it was the easiest urge to resist. (We suggest you give in. Getting sleep is a beauty must!) Other urges that people reported: Ones to have sex or knock back a drink...which they

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    • Why Men and Women Think Differently

      It's obvious men and women don't think alike.It's obvious men and women don't think alike.It's no secret that guys don't always think like us, but a new study from Montreal's Louis-H Lafontaine Hospital found that we actually remember different things, too.

      By Korin Miller

      Researchers discovered that women are more likely to remember happy moments, while men are more likely to remember unpleasant experiences.

      For the brain-scan study, men and women were shown 100 computer images that fell into four categories-highly pleasant and highly stimulating (erotic pics), highly pleasant and less stimulating (photos of babies and kittens), less pleasant and highly stimulating (war images), and less pleasant and less stimulating (babies crying).

      Related: 10 Things Women Do Better Than Men

      In the next round of the study, participants were shown the same images in a different order, mixed in with 100 more pics, and were asked whether they had seen each photo again while hooked up to a machine that measured their brain activity. They were judged on how quickly and accurately they

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