by Charlotte Andersen for SHAPE.com
Antoinette TuffAfter talking down a gunman who'd invaded the Georgia elementary school were she works last week, Antoinette Tuff has gone from district bookkeeper to national hero (even President Obama called her). And she certainly is deserving of the accolades: Her quick-thinking likely saved the school-and the country-from another horrific massacre.
But her bravery wasn't bravado, rather it came from a deeper place insider her. Talking both to an emergency dispatcher and the 20-year-old gunman, Michael Brandon Hill, she sympathized with Hill's story of mental illness, telling him, "It's going to be all right, sweetie. I just want you to know I love you, though, okay? And I'm proud of you. That's a good thing that you're just giving up and don't worry about it. We all go through something in life. I thought the same thing, you know, I tried to commit suicide last year after my husband left me. But look at me now. I'm still working and everything is okay."
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Going vegan solely for weight loss can backfire, big time. If you aren't vigilant with a vegan diet, it's easy to lack in vital nutrients, vitamins, and proteins, which give you energy and help keep your metabolism stoked. Many first-time vegans may also find themselves reaching for more
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1. You're in a funk
Eat: Sweet potatoes
When you're feeling low, resist the urge to reach for chips or candy, and bake an orange tater instead. "Sweet potatoes are one of the most nutritious sources of carbohydrates, and when you consume carbs, they create an instant surge in serotonin, a feel-good chemical that lifts mood," says Lyssie Lakatos, R.D., co-author of The Secret To Skinny. And thanks to the fiber in the tubers, the carbs will enter your blood stream at a more gradual rate, helping keep your energy level stable. Read: You won't crash later and revert to being a grumpy pants, as can happen after a peanut butter cup binge.
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And while working out and eating well can help you fine-tune your body, some goals can only be achieved if you're genetically blessed or have a certain bone structure. So rather than pushing yourself to your breaking point (perhaps literally), find out what's realistic for your body.
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Until now, researchers haven't been sure exactly why exercisers sleep better. So Kelly Glazer Baron, Ph.D., director of the behavioral sleep program at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, analyzed a small 2010 study of 11 women that showed that aerobic exercise improved sleep over a 16-week period.
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So what is an antioxidant?
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What Are the Major GMO Foods?
According to the FDA, the big three GMO foods are soybeans, corn, and canola. But the FDA has also evaluated the safety of genetic modifications to flax, tomatoes, potatoes, cantaloupe, alfalfa, creeping bentgrass, papaya, sugar beets, wheat, squash, radicchio, and plums. The FDA lists consultations on GMO foods and what was genetically modified in the food to warrant the safety consultation on its website.
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Benefits of GMO Foods
In the mid- to late 1800s, monk Gregor Mendel, the "father