It's a tough question, right? I feel like most moms would initially be inclined to say their child, but I'm not so sure that's honest.
Take J. Crew exec Jenna Lyons who's back in the news because she's divorcing her husband of 9 years. They have a kid together--need I remind you of the whole pink toe nails fiasco--but to make matters more complicated, Jenna has allegedly moved on with another woman.
Now this isn't a judgment on Jenna's decision to get involved in a lesbian relationship--to each her own. But what effect do you think all of this will have on Jenna's son? Having your parents separate is hard enough, but to introduce another partner so quickly? It seems clear to me, in this case, that Jenna is thinking more about herself and less about her son.
But I'm just as guilty. When I wasn't happy in the relationship with my daughter's dad, I tried to make it work for like a month. Some people would say that isn't enough--I should have stuck it out for myRead More »from Who Comes First: You or Your Kid?