By Sarah Jio
Feeling a tad unsexy? There are lots of reasons-from job stress to kid drama-that your sexual confidence may have taken a nosedive, but here are 10 easy ways to get that lovin' feeling back again.
1. Tap into Your Inner Diva
Singer Beyoncé Knowles has famously said that she taps into an alter ego when she performs. She even has a name for her: Sasha Fierce. "I have someone else that takes over when it's time for me to work and when I'm on stage," she said in 2008. "Sasha Fierce is the fun, more sensual, more aggressive, more outspoken and more glamorous side that comes out."
Where such a persona gives Beyoncé confidence on stage, you can use this thinking to give you confidence in the bedroom, says Paula Bloom, PhD, an Atlanta-based clinical psychologist and frequent CNN en Español contributor. "It's the old slogan, 'act as if,'" she says. "Act as if you are a sexpot. Act as if you are fabulous. Action often precedes motivation. It can change how you thinkRead More »from 10 Little Sexual Self-Esteem Boosters