Imagine for a moment (and we admit it might be an unpleasant moment) that you knew your husband had cheated on you. Now imagine that you have the opportunity to sit down with the other woman and find out, from her perspective, why he strayed. Would you do it? Before you recoil in horror, consider this: An imaginary other woman might be able to clue you in on what you're potentially neglecting in your marriage. Sure, "taking advice from the other woman is only addressing one level of your marriage's health," concedes Noelle Nelson, PhD, a relationship expert and author of Your Man Is Wonderful. But that said, "these are often things that the wife probably used to do-and should think about doing again." Here, eight little love lessons-from marriage experts, the other woman and a couple of cheating husbands.
1. Work on your own confidence. Patricia,* who is currently having an affair with a married man, cites her aura of self-confidence and self-reliance asRead More »from 8 Marriage Lessons from Surprising Sources