1. BODY INSECURITIES
You know you have this problem if...
You cringe and cover up when your partner sees you naked.
Compliments make you nervous and defensive.
Thinking about his positive attributes makes you wonder what he's doing with you.
PHOTO CREDIT: G STUDIO/ISTOCK IMAGESWhy is it a problem?
When we are ashamed of our bodies, we "withdraw sexually" and have trouble "being playful and free," says relationship expert Dr. Alice Pisciotto.
You know you have this problem if...
Your partner complains you're always blowing up at him - whether he forgot to pick up the dry-cleaning or threw out the manuscript for the novel you've secretly been working on.
Why is it a problem?
You may be using these explosions as a substitute for intimacy, says Pisciotto. "If you say, 'I love you,' who knows how he's going to react?" You may get a grunt, you may get a kiss, you may get some bad news. "But if you scream at him, you know he's going to scream back." Excessive anger may be a sign that you're insecure about his
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2. To save money by selling any part of your body, moving back in with your parents, or forgoing the morning latte that keeps you sane.
3. To develop a daily exercise routine that consists solely of striptease aerobics, pole-dance cardio, and lapdance bootcamp.
4. To get in touch with your spiritual side by pulling a Katie Holmes and joining the Church of Scientology.
5. To reconnect with old friends by sleeping with all of your male buddies.
6. To spice up your dating life and save cash at the same time by canceling your health insurance and dating your therapist.
7. To sing as if no one's listening and dance like no one's watching.
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Below, some office-party pitfalls you should definitely sidestep . . . lest morning-after regret is on your wish list this year. Don't . . .
photo credit: Philip Gay1. Enforce the mistletoe rule: Make out with your boss, intern, or the significant other of either.
2. Interpret "dress festive" to include anything that could be worn as lingerie.
3. Split a bottle of anything with your assistant.
4. Wear reindeer ears and antlers.
5. Shovel shrimp from the buffet table onto your plate like it's your last meal.
6. Hit on a coworker's spouse.
7. Hit on a coworker's very mature-looking teenage son.
8. Dance on anything other than the floor.
9. Sit on Santa's (a.k.a. Eduardo from IT) lap.
10. Drink too much and share how you really feel about everyone in your department.
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Before you fix your diet or fitness routine, you first have to figure out where you went wrong in the past. Track your daily calorie intake and exercise through a site like fitday.com for a clear picture of how many calories you're taking in and how many you're burning on a daily basis. You may find that your morning jogs are too short to make up for the croissant you have for breakfast, or that you can drop pounds if you cut back on your weekend alcohol intake.
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PHOTO CREDIT: IMAGE SOURCE PHOTOGRAPHY/VEER.COM1. Get Gorgeous Lashes All Day.
Heat up an eyelash curler with a blow dryer, then (carefully!) crimp your lashes twice: once in the middle, once near the tips.
2. Layer Makeup to Make it Last for Hours.
Layering is the key to lasting makeup from foundation to blush. The most important thing when applying layers is to have a light touch. This keeps your look fresh and natural.
3. Max Out Your Mascara
Add volume to your lashes by dipping a shadow brush in loose translucent powder, closing one eye at a time, and dusting the tops of your lashes. Mascara applied over power last longer.
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