A few weeks ago I went to dinner with a friend. We are both single and both desiring more but not with each other. I suggested internet dating. He said the ultimate worst thing, "I'm not that desperate."
I cringed-on the inside and the outside.
At the moment I am not online. I have been giving myself a bit of time to heal and get brave again. However, I may be back there soon enough. And I ain't desperate.
I said that out loud, "Hey, I internet date. I'm not desperate. I'm just actively seeking what I very much want."
He rolls his eyes and goes on to tell me how his ex wife also internet dated all over the place, constantly meeting men etc. I had to point out to him how his ex wife actually met the man of her dreams doing this and married him last year.
"Well, I'm just not that desperate yet. And there are a bunch of strange people on there anyway."
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