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By Rosalind Sedacca, CCT

Sadly, celebrity divorces make all the headlines for all the wrong reasons. They showcase the most unconscious behavior, especially when it comes to relationships. Kim Kardashian's marriage going off track after such a short time is just one more example.

Related: Signs that Kim and Kris were Doomed

It appears Kim spent more time working out her wedding details than on determining whether this was a good match from the start. Unfortunately, celebrities are not alone in making this common mistake. Too many couples think no further than the honeymoon plans when contemplating marriage. They have no idea about the complexity behind real relationship issues and the maturity it takes to create a successful long-term outcome.

Divorced couples do, however. They learn through hindsight about the challenges two people face when living together week after week and month after month in today's stress-filled world. It takes awareness, flexibility,

By Maggie Voelker

Girl's outfit.

Round Sunglasses | Lace-Up Boots | Jeans | Sweatshirt | Shoulder Bag

Heading to a big sports game is the perfect opportunity to show that you can "hang;" so nix the heels and miniskirt. Unless you have serious ties to one team, figure out what team he's rooting for and go with that; it will show you pay attention to him and hey, it makes dressing a little easier. Wear jeans and a cute crewneck sweatshirt or an awesome vintage sweater in his team's colors. Pair with trendy flat, lace-up boots, retro sunglasses and a small bag. Go get 'em tiger!

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Fleece | Aviator Sunglasses | Jeans | Shirt | Sneakers

Sports, beer, and a girl at your side, could it get much better? Show off your manliness in a pair of dark jeans, a long-sleeved t-shirt and fleece jacket. Add a pair of cool, retro kicks and aviator sunglasses and you'll be the epitome of suave.

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By Whitney Baker

As evidenced by the popularity of ski resorts like Park City, Utah and Telluride, Colorado, celebrity couples love sneaking away for a snowy romantic vacation - and what's not to love? Afternoons spent on the slopes of a majestic mountain and evenings spent snuggling up by a fire or exploring the local nightlife make for a perfect wintery holiday.

When temperatures drop and snow begins to fall, there is sure to be an influx of Hollywood couples at the following ski destinations:

Related: Have Winter Fun In The Sun

1. Aspen, Colorado: The slopes of Ajax Mountain or Snowmass are often teeming with celebrity duos - although it may be hard to spot these famous faces when they're covered in scarves and snow goggles. Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell keep a house here, often inviting children Oliver and Kate Hudson and their families to join them. Heidi Klum and Seal, with their adorable snow bunnies in tow, rang in the New Year last year in Aspen,

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By Linda Guma

On December 22nd, the first official day of winter is upon us. The sun begins to rise late and set early, which can lead to some minor winter blues. As you start to go stir crazy, it's an ideal time to start planning a romantic getaway for you and your partner. A nice break from the same old routine is probably just what you need to re-ignite a spark in your relationship. Here are ten places to escape to with your loved one this season:

1. Tampa Bay, Florida: With the winter chills fast approaching, the birds aren't the only ones heading south this winter. Located along the Gulf of Mexico, Tampa Bay is an ideal destination for a couple vacation. Enjoy long walks along the shore one of the beautiful beaches, like hot spot Archibald Beach Park, which is often busy on weekends and features restaurants and bathrooms nearby. You can even indulge in your sporty side and check out a Tampa Bay Rays baseball game with your mate.

Related: The Most Romantic

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By Whitney Baker

There are so many things to be excited about during the holidays: fun-filled family time, delicious home-cooked meals, presents waiting to be unwrapped and perhaps a much-deserved vacation. However, if you're nursing a broken heart, this festive time of year may seem burdened with only cold and lonely days.

You may never forget your heartache, but someday, you will be healed and happy again. Until then, the ten ideas below may make your holidays seem a bit more bearable and that damaged heart feel a little less painful:

Related: Mending Your Broken Heart

1. Volunteer: No matter the time of year, giving to others can mend a hurt soul and fix any frown. During the holidays, the opportunities to volunteer seem to multiply, making it extra easy for you to make a difference in someone else's life.

2. Listen to holiday music: There's something so innocent and child-like about holiday music. It'll take you back to those days when your biggest

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By SMF Marcus Osborne for GalTime.com

It's well documented that the holidays are the toughest time of the year for millions of people. Depression rates skyrocket because people confront various personal demons and/or a multitude of interpersonal crises.

This got me to thinking about the myriad of ways the holidays can be ruined when you're in a relationship. I sat down with one of my partners at StraightMaleFriend.com, Matt Staudt, and we came up with a pretty strong list of 8. Now, once we'd finished the list, with perhaps a couple of exceptions, it was clear that men and women probably aren't that different when it comes to this topic. You be the judge.

1. Not "Keeping It Real": Don't be coy about your excitement surrounding the holidays. Let's not pretend like it's not a big deal when it really is a big deal. Don't say, "Oh, the holidays don't really matter to me" and then when your guy decides to boycott the commercialism of the holidays by boycotting your

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By Sarah Ellis

If you're in a new relationship, the looming holidays may mean you're a tad anxious about meeting "the family." Naturally, you want to make a good impression, and while it's what's on the inside that counts, your appearance will speak for you before you even open your mouth. What you wear should certainly reflect your personal style, but try to move away from anything that's terribly polarizing and stick with something simple and classic. That means no glitter or sequins, nothing too body-hugging, and nothing low cut or short. Those rules are pretty much a no-brainer, but not everyone keeps that in mind! You don't have to go as far as a turtleneck and pearls, especially if that's not "you" - but try to channel more Olivia Palermo … and less Kim Kardashian.

Related: Etiquette Expert Says Kim Kardashian Should Return Wedding Gifts

Stick with structured and ladylike, instead of sexy and fitted. Olivia knows how to work the classic pieces while putting

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By Andrea Woroch

Enough with the home-cooked meals. It's time to get out of the house and let someone else prepare your food for a change.

In response to tight budgets, frugal advisers have recommended for some time now that we stay at home to save money. But such deprivation grows old fast, so maybe it's time to consider these six tips to help you spread your dining wings without crash landing your budget:

1. FourSquare Deals: Members check-in to various locations on their mobile phones using this service, but did you know you can also receive offers for freebies and discounts simply by letting FourSquare know where you are? Check out a recent segment on FOX & Friends for a "how to" on using the app for restaurant savings.

Related: Dieting Like a Celebrity Is Easier than You Think

2. Track Daily Deals: Restaurants are one of the most common frequenters of daily deal offerings, so it pays to keep an eye out for vouchers that can greatly reduce the cost of