Deborah Jian Lee, SELF magazine
Let's talk. A SELF poll finds close to half of you worry that other women are having more (and hotter) sex. In reality, 83 percent aren't even getting crazy on the regular. So ditch your sexual FOMO and try a few new tricks. Up for a fun, sexy challenge?
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Have "menu" sex. Only 12 percent of you have sex every day. But you should try it! The more times you get it on, the better it gets. SELF's mission for you: Do it daily for a week, planning romps like a menu. "A good diet has more than one food group, and your sex life should be well-rounded, too," says sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. "Have intimate action one time; fantasy sex the next; the wild, stress-relieving kind after that." The spree will start racy thoughts racing more often, pumping you up to do it. A lot.
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