by Anna Post, The Emily Post Institute, for Brides
If the wedding is cancelled, who keeps the engagement ring?
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Even though technically the bride isn't required to return the ring (at least in most states), it's the best thing to do, regardless of who called off the wedding. While the ring was a gift, it was more importantly a symbol of a commitment to marry. Since there will no longer be a marriage, do you really want to keep a reminder of a future that won't happen? After all, the ring isn't a consolation prize. The emphasis here should be on appreciating the relationship you once had, not on cashing out any material value. Returning the ring gives everyone a fresh start. In the end, you will need to let your conscience be your guide.
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If, however, the ring was a family heirloom of the groom's family, there's no question: It should be returned. If you and your fiance
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