What do couples fight about most? Money (what to do with it and why there's not more of it), sex (how much to have it), time (how to spend it) and family (why your parents drive me crazy and why my parents seem to drive you crazy) often top the list.
When you put all these wonderful dynamics in a holiday stew, it's a recipe for disaster. With so much to figure out-travel, gifts, planning various events-it's no wonder many couples get stuck and stuck again thinking about where to go and what to do for the holidays.
If you're not fighting with your partner about which parties to go to, then it's which set of in-laws to see for Thanksgiving, or where to go over Christmas (or your holiday of choice) and New Year's. In fact, there's pretty good reason to think the questionsWhere should we go and who should we spend the holidays with? represent a perfect storm for an argument with your partner.
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