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    • I Didn't Know Kindergarten Offered a Class on Copping an Attitude


      This post was written by Sarah Fernandez.

      My son has now officially been in kindergarten for just over one month. Most aspects of it have been much as I expected and he seems to be doing well with his school work, making friends, and generally adjusting to this big milestone in his life. But what I wasn't expecting was that he would suddenly have such an attitude about things, and it is clearly the result of going to school.

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      When he gets on the bus in the morning, I often get a hug and he drives away waving out the window. But in the afternoon he gets off that bus, barely makes eye contact with me, and walks into the house before he will even say hello. What happens to my child during the day? It's as though he knows he's a part of a family unit in the morning, but throughout the day he realizes that he's a big kid with independence, and he doesn't want the other kids to know that he still

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    • Radio Station Holds 'Win a Baby' Contest: Bad Taste or Amazing Gesture?

      This post was written by Ryan Johnson.

      Radio stations have been holding contests for their listeners for about as long as they've been on the air. And scandals surrounding those contests are just about as old. In 2007, a 28-year-old California woman died from water intoxication after competing to win a Wii gaming system, and way back in 1938, a radio station broadcast an adaptation of the novel, War of the Worlds, which caused panic and hysteria among its listeners.

      The latest contest added to the controversial list comes out of Ottawa, Canada. CNN is reporting that Hot 89.9 hosted a contest for couples to try to "Win a Baby!" Here's how it worked: Couples wrote essays on why they think they should be chosen to win. From those entries, the stations chose five couples to compete. On Tuesday, the winner was announced, and all five couples were awarded the grand prize of three IVF treatments each.

      While the title of the contest seems a little sensationalistic (and maybe

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    • Why You Need a Mom Uniform

      This post was written by Susan Wagner.

      My sons wear uniforms to school: navy shorts or pants, white polo shirts, school sweatshirt. On Thursdays they trade the polo for a dress shirt and they add a tie. They would give up the tie if they could, but we all love the uniform -- no worrying about what to wear, no arguing, no disappointment because some favorite shirt is in the laundry. The uniform makes our life one million times easier (no exaggeration).

      A Mom Uniform can do the same for your life, whether you're going to an office every day or staying home with the kids. When you have the right pieces, getting dressed in the morning is easy, and a uniform requires no thought or planning -- just put it on and go.

      A successful Mom Uniform does two things: it makes you look great, and it makes your life easy. This leaves out yoga pants and track suits, in case you were hoping to make either of those your uniform. What's the alternative? Here are three options.

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    • No Girls, No Problem: Why I Don't Mind Having Three Sons

      This post was written by Alia Hoyt.

      Most people with babies on the brain have a mental image of what their family will look like once it's up and running. A lot of the time, though, our kids come out nothing like we expected, from their interests to their appearances (and everything in between).

      This mental image even extends to the gender of your kids, of course -- although what you end up with isn't always what you imagined. Dads that long to cultivate tiny quarterbacks sometimes end up with delicate princesses more prone to tea parties than touchdowns (Note: I'm not classifying all little girls as "delicate" -- plenty of lil' ladies are athletes or downright tough in their own right). So what's a parent to do when their family looks different than expected? Sit in a corner and pout? Demand a refund?

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      I recently found out that I am carrying my third boy, and although my husband and I are

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    • Why My Kids Are Not My "Everything" -- and Why They Shouldn't Be

      This post was written by Sami Grover.

      The first rule of parenting may well be "judge not", but c'mon - we all do it. For me, personally, I've always withheld the most suspicion/judgement of those parents (we all know them) who claim that their children are "everything" to them.

      Really? Everything?!

      Don't get me wrong. I love my daughter (and my impending new arrival) more than I could possibly have imagined. Every day brings new adventures, new experiences, and fascinating insights into what it means to be human. From her amazed wonder at the tiniest little bug, to her squeals of delight at a simple game of tickle monster. She's taught me a lot about enjoying life and seeing the world around me.

      But she's not my everything.

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      I still love my wife. I still love reading books. I still love arguing politics. And I still love going out for beers and forgetting all about diapers and nap times and feeding schedules and

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    • Got a Slacker Kid? Don't Worry: Let Him Be Happy


      This post was written by Kelly Rossiter.

      I have a confession to make. My son was a slacker at school, and I didn't worry about it much. My husband, on the other hand, was insane about it. He comes from a family where a mark of 97% elicited the response, "What happened to the other 3%?" whereas my family would say "97%? That's nice, dear."

      I can't begin to tell you the number of times we were told that my son wasn't working to his potential, that he had gone as far as he could on "native intelligence" as one teacher put it. He always did his homework, but to the bare minimum. In Grade 3 when asked how long a diary entry should be, the teacher replied "oh, about 3/4 of a page". Hugh carefully measured out 3/4 of the page, drew a line across and stopped mid-sentence when he came to the end of that line. He got a good mark for it, too.

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      There is so much pressure in our current climate to get children into

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    • Should Preschoolers Watch the News?


      This post was written by Marisa Belger.

      W and I have a morning routine: I turn on NPR and make some French press coffee. He eats a waffle while pretending to be Batman or Captain America. After four minutes are up, he uses his superhero powers to push the press on my coffee.

      It's a good routine, but lately there's been a snag in the program. Usually W is so immersed in saving the good guys from the bad guys, that he doesn't click into the stream of current events - sometimes negative, often scary -- pouring from our kitchen radio. Yet for the past few weeks, he's been interrupting his own stream of consciousness role playing to ask me a question about something he heard on the news. Questions like: "Mama, why did she say 'kill?'" and "What did President Obama do?"

      So far, I've been navigating my three-year old's questions by tuning the radio to an all music station, explaining that the news is for grown ups and reminding him that no, killing is not good and that

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    • Michelle Duggar: The Importance of Wise Counsel


      This post was written by Michelle Duggar.

      I think many of us throughout our lives have a need to seek counsel; it's just part of life. At times you're going to come up against a hard situation, tough decisions, and you may need counsel, and that's just the way it is.

      But those who are seeking and learning and growing as they're going along, many times they'll be getting counsel and they don't even realize they're getting it. It could be listening to a great radio message while driving to the grocery store.

      Often I tell my kids, "Listen, while you're riding in the car, if you're headed to work or going on an errand, fill your mind with good preaching messages." You can find counsel in so many ways - going to church, watching movies, reading books.

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      Scripture says that there's wisdom in many counselors, and whoever and whatever we have around us -- whether it be good books, good messages that we're listening

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    • Why I Wish My Daughter Would Watch TV


      This post was written by Sarah Fernandez. Photo Credit: Heleen Sitter/Getty Images

      When my son was born, I was determined to keep him away from the television for as long as possible. I made it until he was almost two years old before we introduced Curious George and Sesame Street, and he officially became a television watcher. And while there have been times when he watched way too much of it, at five years old now we have found a nice balance of about an hour a day. But my daughter who is two and a half will not watch television, and I never thought I'd say this, but it drives me nuts!

      The thing about television is that it has its benefits. As most parents who have television watchers know, it can be easy to let your child watch lots of television because they become all consumed in it and you know that they are going to sit safely in that chair with their eyes aimed at the wall while you finish up that last bit of work, make a phone call, or get dinner made. I'm not

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    • Do You Have a Favorite Child?


      This post was written by Sarah Fernandez. Photo Credit: Cultura/Axel Bernstroff/Getty Images

      Is the age old statement from parents that they don't have a favorite child really a giant lie? The cover story of Time magazine this week claims that all parents have a favorite child because we are hard-wired to do so, and author Jeffrey Kluger who has just come out with a book The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and Sisters Reveal About Us, says that we shouldn't fight science and should accept this as the way it is. But who is most likely to be the favorite child? What are the implications of having a favorite child? And what if I don't think I have one?

      Who is the Favorite and Why?

      Kluger claims that first born children are most likely to be the favorites because parents invest the most time and energy into them and they tend to be taller and stronger. However, mothers often offer the youngest the most compassion according to Kluger. Kluger suggests that

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