You and your husband have been fighting non-stop lately. It seems like everything he does or says gets on your last nerve, and you just want it to stop. How can you get both of your points across without arguing? It seems like an impossible feat.
In this video, clincal and sports psychologist and YourTango Expert Dr. Jack Singer says that this issue is a very common problem among married couples because it gets at one of the fundamental skills needed for a healthy relationship: communication. He says, "You and your husband need to learn how to communicate without defensively getting in a position of anger and hostility and trying to prove whose more powerful or whose point makes the most sense." Try actively listening to your partner by putting yourself on an equal plane with your partner.
Want to learn more? Watch the video above.
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