It never fails to amaze me that every time I write a post about broken engagements, many commenters are most interested in discussing what the proper etiquette is when it comes to keeping or giving back the engagement ring. [You know where I stand and, as expected, some of you disagreed. In general I don't think there's a one-size-fits-all approach and you should definitely do what feels right for you and your former fiance. However, the "experts" do have strong opinions on the matter. This "Debate This" ran in March 2008 (before I got un-engaged, FYI), but I believe it covers two popular views on the issue.-Editor]
Engagements are all congratulatory wishes and bridal showers until they end without a wedding. Along with the usual breakup activities-"dividing of things," "starting over of lives"-there's the even more awkward "deciding of who gets to keep the 10-karat (or 1-karat) ring." According to a Conde Nast Bridal Media study, the average engagement ring cost is $4,435, soRead More »from Who Keeps The Ring When An Engagement Is Broken?