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    • Talking to Your Child about 9/11


      Many parents are concerned about how to talk to their kids about the 10th anniversary of the 9/11 terrorist attacks. This article by Dr. Mary Pulido, executive director the New York Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children, provides comprehensive advice and practical guidance on what to say -- and do -- for parents of kids of all ages.

      As the 10th anniversary approaches, parents may worry about how to have a conversation with their child about this sad event. I recommend that you frame it in such a way that you're not producing unnecessary anxiety for your child, but providing them with enough detail to satisfy their curiosity or concerns. After the terrorist attacks of 9/11, I was a provider of crisis counseling services to children, teachers, and parents under a Project Liberty grant to my agency, The New York Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NYSPCC).

      Here are my suggestions:

      Let them know you're there to listen to their questions and

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    • Want the Ultimate What-to-Watch Guide for Teens?


      Which TV Shows Are Taking Aim at Your Teen This Fall?

      Every fall, TV networks debut a handful of new shows, and execs cross their fingers that something will stick. Many shows are rehashes of previous hits or follow a formula that's worked in the past. And occasionally something original hits the airwaves. But whether your teen is a fan of the tried-and-true or only tunes in for something really special, chances are he or she will hear about -- and maybe even want to watch -- these new network shows with strong teen appeal.

      Suburgatory (ABC)

      City kid moves to the 'burbs in edgy comedy.

      This clever fish-out-of-water comedy features a top-notch cast and plenty of edgy humor. Jane Levy (Shameless) stars as Tessa, a cool city kid who's whisked off to the supposedly safe suburbs when her dad (Jeremy Sisto) finds a package of condoms in her dresser drawer. She and her dad arrive to find a cast of wacky suburban characters (like the potroast-weilding Sheila Shay,

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    • Top 5 Ways to Get Your Family Back on Track for School

      Getting your family back on a school-year routine after a summer of staying up late, playing on the computer, and watching TV all day (and perhaps all night, if you caught the SpongeBob marathon) isn't easy.

      If you loosened your screen-time rules this summer, you're in good company. According to a Harris Interactive poll, about half of all parents say their kids watch more TV, play more video games, surf the Web more, and watch more movies during the summer months.

      But since a good night's sleep and limited media are key contributors to school achievement, somebody has to get things back on track. These five strategies can help you get a jump on things.

      Have a last blast. Plan one final session of media indulgence. Have a family movie night, a video game day, an iTunes party -- something that says "so long, summer." A media send-off gets everyone ready for the restrictions to come.

      Prepare your kids.A week before school starts, start enforcing bedtime, and turn

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    • What Are the Best Apps to Get Your Preschooler Reading?




      Learn to Read Apps

      With these learn-to-read apps, parents on the go can help their kids enter the world of independent reading.


      1. Bob Books #1 - Reading Magic
      Parents need to know that Bob Books #1 - Reading Magic is an educational experience that will gently teach your young children early phonics by teaching the sounds that letters make and how to combine them to make short words. Your children will drag the letters for the given word to the proper place below the picture, while the app sounds out the letters and reads the word aloud. Children's efforts will be rewarded when the black and white screen transforms to color and the drawings become animated. There are twelve pages and each one has four levels. You can customize the settings to suit your child's current phonics knowledge and reading level.

      2. Kids Learn to Read
      Parents need to know that Kids Learn to Read is the third in a series of pre-reading and reading apps created by Intellijoy. Cute character Tommy Turtle

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    • Parents' Tried-and-True Tips for Back To School

      Kids are returning to school this year more saturated in media than ever. From the TV to the computer to the cell phone, balancing your kids' media consumption with homework, after school activities, and play dates is no small feat.

      How do you set limits? When should you supervise online activities? How do you reward responsible kids (or give consequences for missteps)? In the tips below, our readers provide practical, do-able, tried-and-true advice you can put into practice right away.

      See How Parents Make it All Work

      Cell Phone Rules

      Say 'nighty night. "At night before bed or at 8:30, we have them turn their phones off and charge them in a certain place that's near our bedroom. They can get their phone in the morning before school."

      Don't believe the hype. "They want to know when they can get their own cell phones and iPods (even though they weren't totally sure what it was). So we've had discussions on what's neat and fun to have and what's necessary."

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    • Do You Let Your Preschooler Play with Your Phone?

      Little kids love apps -- and so do most parents. The ability to tap, touch, and swipe can lead to hours of fun, especially for tiny fingers. And sometimes, handing over your smartphone makes a tantrum magically disappear.

      Apps can teach great things -- at low or no cost. But that doesn't necessarily mean that you should always hand over your device when your little one is bored. Each swipe on a tablet or smartphone means less time spent doing all of the other activities that are good for preschool-aged development and more time spent in front of a screen. And if your kid is already watching TV or playing on your computer, it all starts to add up.

      Too much screen time can impact everything from kids' health to their school readiness. Here's how to manage your kid's app habit.


      Tips to manage your preschooler's app habit

      There are better teething devices than electronics. If your kids start to put your phone in their mouth, they're too young to use it. Find

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    • 6 Ways to Talk to Kids about Cheating

      Fight High-Tech Cheating (Before It Starts)

      A friend of mine was helping her daughter with her homework when they got to some challenging word problems that neither of them could solve. My friend's Facebook page was open, so she posted the questions to her friends -- and immediately received the answers. Problem solved? Hardly. When the results came through, it occurred to my friend: Am I cheating?

      The ease and immediacy of digital devices -- cell phones, smart phones, Internet access, and social networks -- allow us to get answers quickly and efficiently without having to do a lot of work. And if it's a gray area for parents, it's really shady for kids.

      A 2009 Common Sense Media poll revealed that lots of kids are doing exactly what my friend did. Plus, they're texting each other answers during tests, using notes and information stored on their cell phones during tests, and downloading papers from the Internet to turn in as their own work. And, while my friend felt

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    • What's Hot for Back to School (and How to Handle It)

      Every back-to-school season, kids just seem to know what's "in" and what's definitely "out." They pick it up from marketing, of course (which seems more aggressive every year). But they also get it from friends, whose opinions carry more weight than parents' -- especially when it comes to what's cool.

      This year, in an attempt to stay just a baby step ahead of our kids, we did some snooping. What we discovered is that more and more, kids are sharing and comparing notes of a digital nature: the must-have tech, the must-see viral videos, and the must-join websites.

      What's the next Facebook? Is YouTube passé? Read on to discover what's big for back to school -- and how to handle it all.

      Dora the Explorer, Ben 10, Barbie, and Angry Birds. It's not a new phenomenon that kindergarten cubbies fill up fast with backpacks and lunchboxes promoting kids' favorite characters. But while the characters may not be new (well, except for the Angry Birds, who suddenly seem to be

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    • 10 Best Back-to-School Books





      Whether your kids are heading off to school for the very first time or are old pros at navigating lockers and homework assignments, the books on this list are bound to entertain (and maybe even reassure) them. Need help managing first-day-of-school jitters? No problem. Need entertaining back-to-school books? Check out our reviews of books featuring spy schools and other imaginative institutions. Happy reading!

      The New Bear at School This cuddly bear tale explores fitting in at a new school.
      Boris is a very big, very furry, very scary-looking grizzly bear and so he has a tough time making friends. Things are made worse when he makes several blunders on his first day of school -- breaking a chair, tearing a book, and accidentally scaring his classmates. Will they be able to see past his appearance to the lovable bear who lies underneath? When the school bullies arrive on the playground, Boris gets the opportunity to redeem himself in the eyes of his classmates.

      Off to First Grade
      Kids

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    • Back-to-School Shopping with Barbie

      The summer before my daughter started kindergarten was filled with firsts. First summer camp, first swimming lessons, first back-to-school shopping. Thanks to a school uniform policy, clothes were the easy part, but finding a backpack turned out to be an adventure -- not only did we visit countless stores in our search, but we learned a lot about which media brands were working overtime to catch my 5-year-old's eye.

      With back-to-school shopping raking in more than $30 billion a year for retailers, it's a prime time to target both parents and kids. And advertisers know that the earlier a kid learns about a brand -- whether it be McDonald's or Tinker Bell -- the more likely she'll be to buy it or beg for it later.

      Barbie tries to befriend my daughter
      Our first stops were the usual big box stores; there we found backpacks swimming in a sea of sparkly pink, where characters from TV shows and movies frolicked joyfully on the racks. The Hannah Montana backpacks glittered,

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