Anne-Marie Guarnieri, Allure magazine
Listen to the average pop song, and you'd think a well-timed stare across the dance floor is all it takes for a night of passion. Those lyrics aren't far off: Your body sends a powerful message about your intentions, and you can actually master the right moves. Work a few simple gestures into your repertoire, and you could write your own slow jam-or at least make the right kind of first impression.
Draw Them In
A smile is the quickest way to put someone at ease. "It is the expression that the human brain prefers," says Carol Kinsey Goman, author of The Silent Language of Leaders (Jossey-Bass). "We look for smiles, and we can spot them a football field away." People instinctively mimic a smile when they see one, and that in turn affects their emotional state. "Smile at someone, and when they smile back, they actually start to feel better about themselves-and about you," says Goman. One catch: This only works with a "real" smile. "The
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