As a childless 37 year old woman, married for over six years, I have had my fair share of pressure to have a child. And although I've come to a point in my life when I can deal with that pressure in a healthy and hopefully graceful way, it still bothers me that people feel that pressuring an individual or couple to have a baby is acceptable. Putting pressure on friends or loved ones to have a child is the most inappropriate and selfish thing one can do. If you've ever been a victim to this pressure, you know of what I'm speaking. If, however, you have been the one to apply pressure to someone in your life to have a baby, you might want to stop and reevaluate your actions. Chances are you have no idea as to why someone is or isn't having a baby, and your pressure could be creating unnecessary stress and anxiety for a mom-to-be or a couple:
- Timing: When I've been pressured to have a baby, I've had countless people tell me that "there is never a good time." Having a baby absolutely









