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My girlfriend of 6 months and I broke up more than 3 months ago but she does not seem to be taking the hint. The calls, emails and texts still come at all different hours of the day, she has been spotted in my office building (she doesn't work here) and most recently I ran in to her at a restaurant while I was on a date. It took some effort to avoid a scene, and she has not stopped reaching out to me. I don't want to be a jerk and am trying to respect her feelings but I am starting to get the sense that I am being stalked. What is the best course of action in this situation?

SingleEdition.com Legal Expert Ken Schoen's Answer:

Sure sounds to me as though you are being stalked, and it serves as a reminder that this is a gender-neutral issue that can have serious consequences. Assuming you have made it absolutely clear that you want no further contact, your first concern should be to protect your own safety. Circumstances like yours can escalate quickly, even where one

Cooking for number one?

Chef and food media personality and promoter, Karine Backhoum who appears regularly as a judge on the Iron Chef, prepared some single serve recipes for Single Edition Members.

Endive, Grape and Walnut Salad With Crumbled Gorgonzola Cheese

Endive salad is a great choice for the solo diner as you can purchase one or two stalks, which is enough for one meal. They are best purchased fresh and crisp. I like to mix them with apples or grapes for added sweetness and walnuts or pecans are a wonderful accent for texture and added health benefits. Depending on your mood, you can serve with crumbled blue cheese. Gorgonzola, feta, goat or just about any cheese you like. These days all of these cheeses come in small containers already crumbled for easy use and storage.

Serves 1

Ingredients:
One or two Belgium Endives
6 to 8 red grapes cut in half lengthwise
¼ cup walnuts - halved
1 TBS crumbled Gorgonzola or shaved Parmesan or cheese of

My husband of 19 years and I had a fight and I told him to leave. He did and ended up moving across to the other side of the country! It's been 2 years now and we're still separated. I would like to try to reconcile but he doesn't seem to be interested. He isn't in any other relationship (according to him, and I believe him) but I just can't seem to get over him. How can I move on?

SingleEdition.com Lifestyle Expert Sherri Langburt's Answer:

It is very unlikely for one fight, no matter how extreme, to destroy such a long term relationship. This one argument was the catapult which caused your man to flee, but clearly a symptom of a much larger problem.

You now need to take a realistic look at the set of circumstances with which you are dealing as well as your past. Overly romanticizing relationships is extremely common, especially when distance is involved and so much time has elapsed without any closure. I suggest you take emotional inventory of your previous

I have been out of work for almost 4 months. I would like to continue dating but have a hard time believing that a single woman would be interested in a man who is not making a living. Should I put my love life on hold until I land a job?

SingleEdition.com Career Expert Alyson D'Anna's Answer:

Assuming you have not become a couch potato during your time off, don't put your love life on hold! Many singles forced into temporary sabbaticals are taking advantage of their time off by traveling, going back to school, volunteering and/or learning new hobbies. As a result, their lives become multi-dimensional and dynamic, full of fascinating experiences that make for interesting dating discussions.

If you have not taken advantage of your time off, I urge you to do so immediately. Get involved with a local volunteer program, treat yourself to a low-budget singles adventure or join a club. Remember, the extra-curricular activities you engage in while unemployed are fantastic

With cold weather and the Holidays right around the corner, the cravings for rich, comforting desserts is suddenly upon us. No matter what the hankering, from decadent chocolate soufflé to rich and creamy toffee pudding, the wayward economy may spell good news for dessert lovers. Tight budgets are causing more singles to eat meals at home instead of restaurants, and a variety of small gourmet shops are responding to the trend by adding single-serve desserts to their repertoire. The following is just a taste of what's in store for you this season:

The Daphne Baking Company: A focus on small portions for singles is what propelled the Daphne Baking Company to create three-and-one-quarter inch tarts, which are smaller than the standard four inch size one usually encounters. These gourmet just-for-one desserts are easy to store, thaw and serve simple, and come in 4 delectable flavors including chocolate, lemon, macadamia nut and pumpkin. Don't worry if they are not available in a

I am an event planner at an upscale entertainment boutique. The job offers great perks and salary but does not give me enough time with my 4 year old daughter. How do I find a job that is exciting and equally rewarding that would free me up for my family?

SingleEdition.com Career Expert Alyson D'Anna's Answer:

Personal self-assessment and understanding what would equate to "equally rewarding" for you is the first step in the process. While it is possible to find a job that will create more time and flexibility, it is important to recognize you may have to forfeit some of the perks and/or salary to support your desired schedule. Before thinking about changing jobs altogether, find out if your current employer will support a flexible work arrangement or has a job-sharing program. Typically, this information will be detailed in the company Employee Handbook or through information provided by the Human Resources Department.

If your company does not support flexible