You know people keep testing me and trying me, they have tendency to keep trying to provoke me to go somewhere I don't want to go, why is that? I think because of the way I carry myself people think I'm going to stay in my sophisticated, classy, lady like mold, which I have. I can't allow people to take me somewhere I don't want to go but, "DON'T UNDERESTIMATE" ME I probably won't hurt you LOL but I will put you in your place, and not allow you to underestimate that I will not say a word.
I try to avoid arguements because I hate to argue, I rather leave it alone as much as possible but, don't keep mistreating me and act like you don't have a problem, because I choose to not keep letting you do what you want to me, like I'm your puppet on your string. That goes for family as well. Stop trying to knock me down with your words and dare me to get up, well I'm UP. And I will no longer allow myself to continue allowing my self to be treated wrongly by others any longer. And people really
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You know people keep testing me and trying me, they have tendency to keep trying to provoke me to go somewhere I don't want to go, why is that? I think because of the way I carry myself people think I'm going to stay in my sophisticated, classy, lady like mold, which I have. I can't allow people to take me somewhere I don't want to go but, "DON'T UNDERESTIMATE" ME I probably won't hurt you LOL but I will put you in your place, and not allow you to underestimate that I will not say a word.Read More »from THE UNDERESTIMATED WOMAN!
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I decided to clean around the rim of my life and put a new lid on it by closing out the things that may cause it to spoil!
Bacteria of people can enter into your life and cause others to contaminate your dreams! Every one can not go where you're going, a jar can only hold so much if you put to much in it, it will not seal properly.
That means one thing, you can put in what's not meant to be added, we try to keep or hold people in our lives that's not meant to be. But we end up figuring it out when a time comes, to allow us to see things clearly, and we ask ourselves a question, why do these things keep spilling over in my life, we call ourselves cleaning it up, but it continues to spill.
Well, it's time to PUT A NEW LID ON IT! Make the neccasary changes that needs to be made, new love, new friends, new you equals= New LIFE! The new lid seals and protect the new things pouring into your life.
When you're sitting around waiting for a situation to change that should not have gotten to
Why people won't leave you alone when you have made a decision to leave them alone? In A GOOD WAY no hard feelings. It is a place I need to be right now for my life. They nip pick things to try and get your attention to react. But, you continue to not pay attention they do what I call nip picking by having these comments. I have matured to a place where it is about "Me" having ME TIME" I like this place I'm in, and don't take this the wrong way but I don't want to be bothered........So, "LEAVE ME ALONE"! I'M HAPPY!!!!!Read More »from JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!
The reason why I'm putting it this way "LEAVE ME ALONE", again because of the little nip picking and sly comments. I never thought I would grow into a place where I love to spend time with me and getting to know me and I don't care about those things any more. In my past it would be a major concern for me and I would respond, but now it's about ME" in a good way. So those things do not matter to me any more. I don't love any one less, it's just mean I have to do
- Teacup Diamonds | Work + Money – Fri, Mar 5, 2010 2:51 AM EST
We all are guilty of pointing the finger at someone faults over and over again! And some try to point the finger in a slick way and say they meant no harm or it isn't directed toward a particular one.Read More »from HOW DO YOU LET GO OF SOMEONE YOU LOVE, WHILE OTHERS JUDGE?
BUT tell me how do you let go of someone you love when they have walked out on you and yet your heart and your prayers to God says hold on? While others are judging and say you deserve better when you already know you deserve better!
Others do not and not ever understand, why you feel the way you do, because that is something designed for your life and not their's. It's your test, when were in school no one take your test for you, you have to take it in order to learn and know your own ability. One time or another we probably have cheated off someones paper and got caught or got answers from someone else, which ever way we have tried to cheat through life by trying to make things happen the way we want it or we have tried to rush life's process, well what am I sayin'? we all
When a women is pregnant, she isn't the only expecting one waiting with anticipation and anxiety and this isn't the only time this moment can occur. It can occur with an job opening, an promotion, financially and most of all a relationship, a marriage, things that holds dear to our heart desires, because that is how life become and began.Read More »from EXPECTATIONS: WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!
Whatever your expectancy, it's a GIFT, that desire, it's a GIFT, don't let it go, don't give up, it will deliver, it will happen, it will give birth. No woman can not get pregnant and not give birth, you have to see what you are expecting to come into your life and you in it. In that same way espect, that thing you desire, have to give birth, your new beginning will happen.
Sometimes, when a woman is pregnant she feels like she's been pregnant forever and so ready to give birth. That's how we all feel in any giving situation, waiting to happen whether we are a man or a woman, we are ready for that something new to take place in our lives, It gives
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I was looking at the news and seeing how so many people are looking for love, but most of all looking for a relationship, a real committed relationship. Dating can be fun but it was never for me, that's why I'm married today. But, I'm writing this because it touches my heart to see so many people who desire love and committement and it has been difficult for them to find, I don't like to here that, people have a right to love and have a committed.
I feel I can give some advice and no my marriage have not been perfect and that's my point we have to except people for who they are and not try to change them. There is no perfect person, no not one! Change will come at that person due time and due seaason. If you can come to except the flaws of one another and you really desire love, than you want a committed relationship.
NO, NO: But, never want anyone for selfish reasons, like to pay your bills or someone you can put your income with to have more money, or when you don't feel like going
In my first marriage I went through abuse for the first 5 years of the 20 years of the marriage, I didn't stay because I loved him I stayed until I had away of escape even though it stopped, the marriage was damaged. I wasn't damaged, I was remarkably healed, which was SELF and my EMOTIONS. Women we are made of layers of strength, we are stronger than we think. That abuse situation did not break you it made you not bitter, but better. We do not have to dwell over the hurt and pain of it, just look at it as growth, and a newer you, you are a diamond that can't be broken or destroyed!Read More »from I Agree: Abuse Is Not Good! I've Gone through it!
Today, I've been out of that relationship for 13 years, I've sinced re-married, but there is one thing I've learned anyone can change, no that does not mean stay in that situation, and I'm not talking about the ex the previous marriage I was in, but prayer does change things. I've heard may men and women talk about how they went through abuse and for 17 years no abuse in their marriages. Everyone have to
- Teacup Diamonds | Work + Money – Thu, Feb 11, 2010 4:53 AM EST
Read More »from LOVE CANDY: NO SUGAR ADDED OR WITH SUGAR FOR YOUR VALENTINE'S DAY!
Love Candy No Sugar Added; We turn away because there's no pleasure or satisfaction, it's meaningless, what's the point, a few less calories, no fat, no flavor. If it has no pleasure, no satisfaction it has (no sugar), if it's not fullfilling (no calories), if it's not gaining anything (no fat), and if it has a nasty taste (no flavor), we will turn away from it, It's pointless and has no meaning at all.
Love Candy Sugar Added; to the candy it's pleasurable, satisfying, it's meaningful because of what you getting out of it, which makes it worth the fullfillment. You're gaining something from the ingredients in the flavor, that's been added. Now, that sounds like sugar in the LOVE CANDY!
Gaining LOVE has so much weight, so much meaning, when it has so many Varieties of Flavor; Prayers, Kindness, Gentleness, Caring, Sensitivity, Compassion, Understanding, Patience, Pleasure, Comfort, Togetherness, Enjoyment, Prayers is always the key to a loving realationship given by God, with No
- Teacup Diamonds | Love + Sex – Tue, Feb 9, 2010 7:55 AM EST
Having something or someone good in your life is always a Good Thing! You would never think any one will turn something or someone good away, but in some cases it has happened, not knowing it's something good about that thing or just can't handle the goods. But when you do not, take the time to see just how good someone is, you miss out on Good Taste and A Good Thing.Read More »from A Man That finds A Wife: Know That She Is A Good Thing!
The reason is, some haven't had Good experience, but if you are a good person, good is coming to you. women are considered a good thing because of how she is made and what she is made of. Their is someone for everyone, but how you treat what you have, determines how long you will keep it.
Love is; A Good Thing, and I believe it's for everyone to experience. If you desire love and to give love, it will happen for you in the moment time permits. But, when it comes appreciate it and not take it for granted, Has humans we tend to take a lot of things for granted and one of those things is eachother. If you feel you'vef been
Me; what about you? At one time or another someone have asked this question in a positive way or negative. What about you, it's all about me should be the answer, because if nothing is about you then there is no reason for you to exist. Now, on the negative end, being selfish and not thinking of other people but you and nothing else matters, that will make a person respond to you negatively.Read More »from ME: What About YOU?
Positively, it's should be about you if you have neglected your needs and wants, then it's time to be a little selfish, for you, because then it is About You. You are the most important piece to the puzzle, if you are missing, then the puzzle can not be completed. If you are not happy then no one else around you would be happy. It's about you because life could not exist without you, knowing who you are plays a key point, to life expectancy.
Expect to receive what you want out of life, do not settle, because you think this is good as, it's going to get; NO SUCH THING, that is bad language that