Our inbox is overflowing and we'll never get to all the lonely hearts, so each week, one reader's fate will be left up to the masses. Answer this reader's question in the comments or by filling out this poll.
Dear Em & Lo,
I think the guy I'm seeing might be cheating on me. We've been together for several months, it was clear from the start that I expected this to be an exclusive thing, though we've never specifically outlined the rules or said "I love you" to each other and he's never said "You're the only one for me." We were going to see where this went, just the two of us -- that was the understanding, no doubt about it. But now he's been acting a little weird, distant, getting annoyed with me more easily, being short with me, not hanging out as much. We're still having a good time and see each other regularly, I'm just getting this weird feeling that something isn't right. I think he's starting to see someone else or other people -- not necessarily having sex, maybe just
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TheAdvice from our guy friends: Do guys like their "back doors" knocked on?
By Em and Lo | Love + Sex – Thu, Oct 30, 2008 7:46 PM EDT
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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the question, Do all (okay, most) guys -- gay or straight -- like their bumholes played with? Just external or penetration (with a finger or more)?
Straight Single Guy (Colin): Isn't there a great Sex and the City episode that decided we like it, we just don't want to talk about it? In reality you're going to have to ask each guy before you dive in. We can't generalize here. External play might be fine in most cases as long as you're stimulating his penis. But full-on penetration can quickly change the picture. For first-timers a finger inside can feel really different but if he's up for exploring why not give it a go? Some (immature) guys think it makes them gay and will have decided beforehand never to try it out. Others may experiment and decide it's not for them. And then there's always those who go crazy for it (like my friend who described his prostate orgasm as such: "It's like coming in slow motion").Dear Em & Lo,
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I am a 26-year-old lady and I love sex. I feel like I am addicted to it. If it were up to me, I'd do it five times a day just over and over and over. Also, my boyfriend lives far away; we only see each other once or twice in a week, so I masturbate like every night. Is that normal?
--Dirty Bird
Dear D.B.,
Yes. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, oh god YES!
We're not shrinks, but it doesn't sound to us like you're addicted. Just imagine a guy asking the same question! Most guys we know masturbate about as often as they floss (at least, the ones with excellent dental hygiene habits do). Masturbating every day is good for you! It puts a smile on your face, it reduces stress, it can help lessen the symptoms of PMS, it pretty much always ends up in an orgasm for you, and it's 100 percent guaranteed not to give you an STD! (assuming you're not using someone else's sex toy or rubbing your hands all over your oral herpes and then putting them down your pants). [Video: What's YourWe ask you: What do you think of Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson?
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What do you think of the relationship between Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson?
We actually like Ronson even more than La Lohan. Here's why!
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By Em and Lo | Love + Sex – Wed, Oct 29, 2008 4:44 PM EDTOur inbox is overflowing and we'll never get to all the lonely hearts, so each week, one reader's fate will be left up to the masses. Answer this reader's question in the comments or by filling out this poll.
My girlfriend hates giving bl*wjobs. We have a great sex life except for this one thing. I'm happy to go down on her and I do, though cunnilingus is not her favorite thing. BJs are my favorite thing, I'd say equal to if not greater than regular intercourse. I'm really starting to miss the oral attention. What do you think?
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The 10 worst "sexy" Halloween costumes ever
By Em and Lo | Work + Money – Wed, Oct 29, 2008 4:36 PM EDT
And by "the worst," we sometimes mean "the best":
1. Retired Hooters Waitresses
2. Genitals -- whether you go as any number of vaginas, a penis-vagina couple or Penisman
3. Sheep F*cker
4. "Sexy" Little Girls
5. Inflatable Sex Frog (?)
6. Free Mammogram Machine
7. Naked, Out-of-Shape Spiderman
8. Catholic Pedophile Priest
9. Live Birth (solo or entire delivery room)
10. "Sexy" Geriatric Witch (click at your own risk)
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The Bedpost Interview: Erotic photographer Ellen Stagg
By Em and Lo | Love + Sex – Tue, Oct 28, 2008 6:08 PM EDT
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IFC.com is currently airing "The Stagg Party," a high-def documentary (in nine 5-minute parts) about Ellen Stagg -- commercial photographer, erotic artist, photo blogger, and bull-ring-wearing bad ass. The show features sit-down interviews with Ellen with lots of behind-the-scene footage of her sex-related shoots. There's even a scene where she (surprisingly) and her brother (not so surprisingly) admit to being obsessed with boobies at a very young age: "Must be something in our genes."
Craziest place you've ever had sex?
Toronto.
Favorite on-screen sex scene?
Oh my, there way too many. Off the top of my head "9 1/2 Weeks" and "The Story of O," and in both movies it's not a scene, it's the whole movie.
Take a look at the movie moments that get us all hot and bothered again and again and again.
Best sex advice you've ever given or received?
Given: women should always get head first. Received: anal takes lots of lube and patience.
Dead historical person you'd have sex with if youLOVE HOROSCOPE: Seeing stars for the week of Halloween
By Em and Lo | Love + Sex – Mon, Oct 27, 2008 5:13 PM EDT
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Getting laid this week is gonna be as easy as trick-or-treating: Knock once, hold out your goodie bag, and watch the booty come to you. But remember, if you're going to take candy from strangers, make sure it's wrapped. (Speaking of casual sex, what kind of morning-after girl are you?)
taurus (Apr. 21st-May 20th)
If your partner has been sneaking around a lot lately, don't assume they're having an affair. Maybe they're planning a surprise Halloween costume ball, a la Eyes Wide Shut. And if that's the case, don't be surprised when the only people who show up are wrinkly old men draped in cloaks.
gemini (May 21st-June 21st)
That hot-hot-hot-hottie at the Halloween party may not be showing their true colors. Remember, the sluttier their costume, the more likely they are to be a total vanilla prude the rest of the year.
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You'll meet a lot of people at any Halloween parties you attend. You should make the first move if you're
