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CosmopolitanThese prettifying products will highlight your sexiest features. Wear them on date night and watch how quickly he asks for that check!

By Corinne Griffith Cole

1. Buxom Divine Goddess Luminizer
Wear under or over your foundation for a sexy all-over glow, and don't forget to hit your collarbone and decolletage for touch-me skin.

$28, Sephora

Related: How To Get Luscious Hair...The Natural Way

2 .Eyeko Curvy Brush Mascara
Plumps and curls lashes for a wide eyed, not-so-innocent stare.

$19, Sephora

3. Kat Von D True Romance Eyeshadow Palette in Saint
Don't let the name fool you: the palette might be called saint but these eight super flattering mix-and-match glam shades will have you sinning in no time. Plus, comes with a liner!

$36, Sephora

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4. L'Oreal Infallible 8HR Plumping Gloss in Plumping Pink
Gives your pout that swollen, just-been kissed look and leaves lips full and glossy for 8 hours.

$9.99, L'Oreal

CosmopolitanBy Ariel Nagi

We all know the obvious signs to tell if a man isn't the one for you: he cheated, he can't keep a job, he's abusive-emotionally or physically-the list goes on. But sometimes, subtle red flags are waving in our faces and we don't realize they mean it's time to dump an undercover loser.

1. All of his friends are single
If all of his friends are bachelors, he probably thinks he still is too. Men who are ready to be committed will stop acting like they're single (i.e., hanging out at strip clubs with all his single amigos) and keep around the dudes who are in serious relationships like him, says relationship expert April Masini of AskApril.com. In fact, studies show that couples who are friends with other couples have stronger romances. Plus, friends like his single boys will likely tease him for being the "taken" one or get upset when he doesn't have time for them, which can put him in an awkward position of choosing between pleasing his buddies or pleasing his girlfriend.

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By Sandy M. Fernandez

In one study, 77 percent of college women copped to being, or having been, in an abusive relationship. Experts don't have a single, set definition for emotional or psychological abuse, but it's generally described as any behavior-short of physical violence-used to manipulate, degrade, humiliate, or punish another person. This can be extreme Lifetime movie stuff: threats, stalking, vandalism, phone or email monitoring. But, just as often, it can be more subtle: overreactions that keep you walking on eggshells, underhanded compliments, barbed advice that's allegedly for your own good, even offers to "help" by managing your money, career, or relationships with others.

Most of these relationships won't escalate to physical violence. But some will and it's difficult to tell until it's too late. The best thing you can do for yourself-or for a friend you suspect might be in such a situation-is to know the warning signs. Here are four actions you might be

CosmopolitanHealthy lifestyle choices-exercising, eating well, going outside, pretty much all the things mami told you do-really can make you feel happier.

By Sandy M. Fernandez


1. Get some sun
New Milford, Connecticut, nanny Melissa Nercessian often works indoors during the day. "I grew up in Puerto Rico," she says, "and in San Juan, I practically lived at the beach." After her doctor diagnosed her with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Nercessian started taking a daily walk outside at lunchtime. Since a lack of sun has been linked to depression, "Try to get sun on your face every day before noon," suggests Dr. Belisa Vranich, coauthor of The Seven Beliefs .

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2. Keep a gratitude journal, or pay it forward
Abuelita was right: You should count your blessings. Recent research suggests that doing so once a day can have a long-term effect on keeping depression away. How? It focuses you away from what's wrong in your life and toward what's right.

CosmopolitanWe've all been there. You get overwhelmed at work and feel like you just want to quit and storm out the office forever…but you can't. In this economy, we know good jobs are basically like one in a million, so career expert Cheryl Palmer offered some tips on how to keep your sanity and not catch a bitch fit.

By Ariel Nagi


1. Take a lunch break-every day
The days of eating lunch at your desk should be over-now. "If you're not regularly taking breaks, things can get very overwhelming, and you end up being more ineffective because your mind is not fresh enough," Palmer says. Take a walk or stroll through the park during your break. If you skip lunch because you feel you don't have enough time, you could end up making a mistake from being too tired and taking even more time to correct it, she warns.

2. Get involved in other activities
The biggest mistake people make is bringing their jobs home with them too often. "Work shouldn't be everything," Palmer says. Try getting involved in

CosmopolitanIf you want those sexy locks you have to treat your hair, but don't ruin it with too many chemicals. Try the natural route and your hair will shine for days!

By Milly Almodovar


Related: The Best Conditioners For Dry Damaged Hair

For many, the only way to get shiny hair is to resort to hair serums, and silicone based products. Although those do work, many of them can weigh the hair down, and even damage it in the long run. Here are some natural solutions that will give you the same results without any negative effects.

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Apple Cider Vinegar
One of the most effective ways to achieve shiny and lustrous hair. After washing, take 1 part apple cider vinegar 3 part water, and rinse the hair. Apple Cider Vinegar is an acid so it will seal the cuticle (which means light can now reflect on the hair). The end result: hair so shiny, it should be a crime!

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Coconut Oil

CosmopolitanWe hear it time and time again: my boyfriend's best friend is a girl. Should you feel threatened or thankful? Dating and relationship coach Tracey Steinberg told us something we're sticking by: if it's genuine, it's actually really, really good that your man has a BFF with boobs. Here's how to deal with it, and when you have a reason to suspect their doing more than playing video games together.

By Ariel Nagi


Having a boyfriend whose BFF is another woman can feel a little weird if you're not used to it. Some men turn to women because we are naturally better communicators and make great friends. But how do you deal with her, and more importantly, know for sure that they aren't into each other or that she's out to sabotage your relationship? Try the first three things, and if you still feel unsure, learn how you can address the situation without ruining your relationship.

Related: How Do I Get My Boyfriend to be More Romantic?

Make her your ally
The best thing to do is

Cosmopolitan Not that you need any reason to have sex, but these health benefits will justify the need to get a little dirty once in a while. Not only does it feel good, sex is really good for you overall.

By Ariel Nagi


1. It can make you look younger
We know that crazy, hot sex can make you feel younger, but did you know it can actually make you look younger? One Scottish researcher claims that having sex three times a week can make you look up to ten years younger.

Related: The Best Places to Have Public Sex Without Getting Caught

2. It beats stress
A recent study of students at the State University of New York in Albany showed that semen acts as a good antidepressant. Next time you're feeling under the weather, get down with him, and we promise you'll get a good night's sleep.

3. It boosts self-esteem
In a University of Texas study, boosting self-esteem was one of the top reasons people have sex. Participants said the act often made them feel better about themselves and their bodies.