Attraction is something that is instinctual. It drives from within our core. What we like, what we don't like. Sometimes we are unable to turn that animalistic force off like a light switch. Some have mastered this and would never cross boundaries and lines. While others are not that capable. Acting on that attraction is up to that person's free will. Take for instance if you have a friend that has a partner that is hot. I mean he or she is your type so naturally you are attracted to them. Now, while your friend is in a relationship or dating that person you are obliged to be on your best behavior. No flirting, no checking out his/hers ass. Time goes on and ultimately your friend and the hottie do not work out. You secretly give yourself a high five because you still are interested in that person.
Months go by and you happen to see that person at say a lounge or a night club and you both give the usual greetings. You start to catch up on all that is life and your spidey sensesRead More »from Sloppy Seconds Or Sharing Desserts: Dating Your Friendâ€™s Ex