by Anya Kamenetz for HowAboutWe

If you paddle in the dating pool for any length of time past the high school prom, you're going to accumulate some exes. And if you're on a journey of personal growth (and who isn't? Onward and upward, sweetie!) then, chances are, those relationships ended for a reason and you are, as everyone likes to say, "in a better place now."

But what, then, to do when an ex-'s life is going in a so very different direction, somewhat publicly? You know they represent a part of your life and a piece of your past. But it's also a piece that you consciously chose to leave behind-so how do you have compassion for that cringeworthy person without, well, cringing and worrying how their woes are going to cast a shadow over your life?

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Take these celebrities as inspiration. We all have a few embarrassing exes in our closet-it doesn't mean you can't hold your head high and go on to

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Add these extra ingredients to your favorite recipes to lift your libidoBy Brianna Steinhilber

Hoping things will heat up after dinner-or breakfast? Luckily, you don't need to rethink your daily dishes to get in the mood. The following one-ingredient additions to your go-to meals can get those sparks flying. Find the 10 easiest ways to work aphrodisiacs into your regularly scheduled meals. Photos by Getty Images

1. Add figs to a smoothie.

This plump fruit is packed with amino acids, which help blood flow to sex organs. And that's vital for getting aroused, says Meryl Rosofsky, MD. "It causes penile and clitoral erection, vaginal lubrication and other parts of the sexual cascade, from desire to orgasm," she explains. Adding two to three figs to your smoothie will take it from a refreshing beverage to an erotic libation. Try a milk-banana-fig combo with honey for a double dose of aphrodisiacs.

2. Toss garlic into a veggie stir-fry.

Whipping up a stir-fry for dinner? Throw in some garlic, and you might be stirring up more than just veggies. "Garlic

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There’s a controversial new ad that’s gone viral this week, and a vocal group of men are up in arms about it, calling it “sexist.”

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Yep, that’s right. This time it’s men who are being belittled to make people buy something: Samsung’s Evolution Kit, which transforms any Samsung television into a smart TV (though the specific product is really beside the point here).

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The commercial was introduced last week on YouTube, where it had neared 10 million hits by Thursday afternoon. In it, a woman strolls into the living room to find her husband/boyfriend lying on the couch and watching TV. He’s a slovenly Neanderthal who’s burping, chewing food with his mouth open, grunting, and watching a moronic cartoon. Said wife sighs in disappointment, plugs the new Evolution Kit into the back of the TV, and then fantasizes about what a similar kit could do for her

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POPSUGAR Sex & CultureSource: 11 Common Bachelorette Party Blunders

Bachelorette parties can be a blast, but a large, random group, poorly planned festivities, or an unhappy bride-to-be can turn a fun night into a total disaster. One of the easiest ways to ensure a great time? Think ahead. Learn these common bachelorette party mistakes so that your next round of festivities is all smiles and smooth sailing.

• Missing Persons: o avoid any hurt feelings, it's important to go over the guest list with the bride-to-be. When it comes to who should or shouldn't be invited - from relatives to random friends - she knows best. Plus, she'll be able to help organize the rooms so that everyone feels comfortable within the group.
• Same Old, Same Old: Just because other pals have gone for a wild getaway weekend, that doesn't mean it's the right choice for every bachelorette. Get creative when it comes to which city or venue you'll visit. Cater to the guest of honor's taste: if she loves the water, try a

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POPSUGAR Sex & CultureSource: 5 Ways to Revive Your Relationship

The conversation? Unremarkable. The sex? Less frequent. The terms of endearment? What endearment? Your relationship has stalled, and it's time to give it a jump start. The first step is recognizing there's a problem; now we've got some helpful pointers for getting back that sizzle and spark. Here are five tips for recharging the love between you and your mate.

• Don't Go to Bed Mad: Or annoyed for that matter. The resentment can build and you'll probably end up irritated by your partner without even remembering why. Resolve any minor issues before you go to bed or resolve to let them go. Flirting can make you feel sexy and your partner desired. Give your guy a knowing look while you're brushing your teeth, touch his arm while you're chatting about your day, or have a make-out session while you're watching a DVD.
• Flirt: Flirting can make you feel sexy and your partner desired. Give your guy a knowing look while you're brushing

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POPSUGAR FoodSource: How Do You Like These New Online Dating Apps?

It seems like every day there's a new form of online dating. No matter what type of relationship you're looking for - from the "forever" kind to the "friends with benefits" kind - there's an app for that! I've been hearing my girlfriends discuss their wins and losses with a variety of online dating phone apps, and now I want to hear from you. I'm breaking down the newest means of tech-based courtship; weigh in on whether you've had good or back luck with them.

• Grouper Social Club: Grouper is a website and iPhone app that sets you and your friends up on a group date by connecting to your Facebook profile. It matches up three guys and three girls (or same-sex couplings) based on your age, education, job, interests, and "general lifestyle." Basically, you pick your wingwomen, and the site selects the date, location, and guys (it also provides a round of free drinks). I could see how the group dates would involve less pressure and

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The Ten of Wands card suggests that you may bring a lot of sexual, dating or romantic experience or energy to your relationship or union. You may feel as if you are defending or protecting your honor, performance or reputation or working to the detriment of your love life. You are getting close to a long-awaited consummation, reunion, milestone, love connection or commitment. You may be in a position to discover soul mate after sowing your wild oats. Take matters into your own hands -- it's a good time to prove or redeem yourself.

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