Two hearts interlocking to show the meaning of love."What is it that you are lacking in yourself that is keeping you single?"
I was taken off guard to be asked this question. What am I lacking? "Do you want the long list or the short list?" I feebly joked.
"I want an answer to the question." He said. "I've done the work and I know why I am single and also why most single women are still single. I want to know what you think is lacking in you."
I had a hard time answering the question. We all are lacking something. I'm not near enough to perfect and I guess I never expect someone else to be. I make poor choices and I make excuses for men and for myself too. My life can be quite chaotic at times and not necessarily because of my own doing. I have a hard time believing the bad in people. I trust too easily. I am too accepting at times and then I can be taken advantage of when someone finds my kindness to be a weakness rather than a genuine strength. I feel things intensely. I tend to have a lot of instability around me and whatRead More »from Love Ain't a Bad Thing